Someone from r/swingers asked me to post this here as well so here ya go.
TL/DR : Wife and I married for 10+ years. High school sweethearts. Never dated, let alone had sex with anyone else. Went to swingers club expecting, at most, a hard swap with a couple. Ended up in middle of orgy.
Wife and I are both in our low thirties and were high school sweethearts. Married for more than 10 years. We’ve never had sex with anyone else. We’ve never dated anyone else. All we’ve ever known is each other. A few months ago we decided to try the LS out and then Covid happened. Yay! After some waiting we decided to dive in and finally go to a club.
We decided on Colette’s in NOLA for our first ever LS event. We have a Kasidie profile and luckily had made a few acquaintances via the events page prior to attending and that made having someone to talk with in the club MUCH easier. Upon arrival around 9:30 we were greeted by the staff and given the standard tour. Afterwards, we went back to get a drink and do the newbie (I assume) stand and stare.
After making sure we were both still comfortable we had met approached and just started chatting us up like crazy. She was with a group of friends that frequently played together and were there for her hubby’s b-day. Slowly, the entire group wandered over and introduced themselves. Everyone was very polite and we gave them our story. After hearing that this was our first night ever and we had never been with anyone else the original female asked to kiss my wife and then did so. It was definitely different for me! She was very flirty with us and flat out offered to be our first new couple. We talked some more and broke away to discuss things. By this time it was only 10:30 or so and still early.
After making sure we were both still comfortable we decided to talk to another couple we had spoken to on Kasidie. We chatted for about half an hour and they gave us some advice. It was obvious that we wouldn’t get “there” with that couple so we didn’t want to overstay and ruin their night.
We talked some more to the side and made sure we were both ok then we sought out the couple we had met first. They were nowhere to be found to be found downstairs so we looked upstairs and came across the wife grabbing a huge gob of condoms from the main area. My wife got her attention and asked if she was officially pre-occupied and she said no and to follow her. At this point I was still expecting it to just be her and her spouse but then we go into her room and the entire group was there! They were all cracking jokes about how she had roped us in whilst getting naked (as a newbie very surreal for me.) To clarify we went in expecting, at most, sex with 2 people. Including us there were 9 people in this room. Surreal.
After a quick discussion with the other ladies to make sure we were still on board they stripped my wife down and began kiss and give her oral. The ladies took turns on her while one of the husbands played with her nipples. I watched for awhile and then got in trouble for still having my pants on (once again, surreal). One of the ladies took off my pants told me to lie down next to my wife and began to suck my dick. I lost track of things here but I know she switched out with another wife after awhile before she gave me a condom and mounted me. At the same time another husband came over, asked to fuck my wife, and I watched him enter her. Surreal. We went at it for about 15 or so minutes and she switched off for another man. I received oral one last time and by this time the 1 husband was wrapping up with my wife.
I either had too many drinks or was so overwhelmed I had trouble maintaining my erection. From what I’ve read that’s normal the first few times. I didn’t cum but nevertheless it was still amazing. The bed we were on was soaked but nobody minded. Afterwards, we sat in the bed and talked about everything with the original couple. She kinda laid out how everything went, aftercare, etc and was checking in with us 1 last time to make sure we were ok. As she was talking to us she was casually stroking my dick while making eye contact with my wife. Once again, still surreal. We chatted a bit more and left to go back to our hotel room.
My wife and I showered and then had sex. We talked a bit about how everything went and assured each other we were ok. After that we crashed! 3 hours later I woke up and was still horny so we had sex again. lol. All in all it was an exhausting, yet fulfilling night. We both think that we probably won’t do an orgy again until much later down the road. It’s just too much to take in.
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/hyujh8/mf_first_time_swinging_with_wife_story_of_how_we
How were the conversations between you and your wife leading up to your first visit?