So how about the flip-side? Would I meet a guy with a small penis who is otherwise absolutely amazing in all ways? If it was entirely up to me, I would say yes. I would be more than happy to meet a guy over a drink or two and see if there’s any hot sexual chemistry between us to work with. If I can see myself having sex with him, then I’ll cross the small penis bridge when I get to it.However, in my relationship, my choice in sexual partner isn’t entirely up to me. Curiously, my boyfriend is the size queen in our partnership and prefers that we play with guys who are well endowed. For your information, my bf is very much straight and of average size in the penis department. It’s just that when it comes to watching me in the throes of passion with another man, he prefers seeing me impaled by a visually large member. Fair enough.As I mentioned before, I have had dreadful sex involving large penises. One of my earlier boyfriends was hung but completely oblivious to how big he was. He had no idea how to use his gift and since he thought oral sex was for ‘women you love’, I basically endured one minute of unsatisfactory penetration relying on five minutes of equally unsatisfying foreplay. Needless to say, I moved on. In retrospect, I would have preferred a short dicked guy who knew how to lick.Conversely, I’ve had gloriously good sex with just five inches of cock. Its owner was a confident man who I fell for the moment I met him. I didn’t even think he had a small penis and yes, I know that five inches is hardly tiny. However, in the world of swinging and recreational sex, men have to be fairly comfortable with their size so five inches is about the smallest you’ll see put out there for consumption.Speaking of which, I can’t say I’ve come across a micropenis in my travels but I understand most owners aren’t likely to parade their goods to the world unless they are into small penis humiliation which is a niche of its own. I’m too much of a nice person to get into that!So, in the name of taking the focus off ‘bigger is better’, here are some reasons why a small penis is a good penis:
* If you like anal stimulation but find average and larger penises too painful, a smaller guy is perfect for anal sex.
* Many guys with smaller penises are very good at foreplay and will aim to get you off well before penetration.
* You can experiment with angles and positions for some G-Spot stimulation with a small penis.
* If you have a sensitive gag reflex then performing oral sex on a small penis won’t make you retch.
* Women who for various reasons can’t enjoy penetration may feel more comfortable with a small penis.
* Women who want to experiment with double penetration may want one partner with a small penis.
If you can think of other advantages, please let me know s/xnap monicca_b1
Source: reddit.com/r/eroticliterature/comments/hor6zx/unhung_heroes_small_penis_appreciation
I would very much like to have a conversation with you about this
Thanks you. Very informative. My wife and I have argued over this many times. I’m extremely jealous of her ex who was packing a 10 inch horse cock and I’m barely half of that. I always feel like I’m half the man than he was and I literally am in the cock area. She says I’m great and she gets super wet with me. We’ve been married over twenty years and I still think about him being better than me. I really appreciate your writing. Made me feel a little better
I used to swing with my ex and my favorite partner we swapped with had 4, maybe 4 and a half inches, and he was AMAZING in bed. Great to feel in ALL my holes. It was a nice contrast from my ex’s 7in coke can that didn’t fit in my ass, only the tip fit in my mouth, and required a lot of foreplay to have PIV with. I still think about him from time to time. I do enjoy the aesthetic of a smaller penis in jack-off porn as well.
I just avoid sex so much easier than being possibly humaliated
Thanks. That really means a lot. I’m getting better in my older age but I still get down sometimes. Our sex is amazing so I guess it’s all in my head
I am 5.5 which puts me in the average range, but you say that 5 is considered small in the LS. From the statistics I found on Google (see below) there are only about 3% of the male population are over 7.25 inches which makes me think all men with large dicks are in the lifestyle. My final question is where are all these men that claim to be so big measuring from. I think the real way to measure actual size is to measure from the top side starting at your stomach and not the bottom side starting at your balls.
* 2.27% of men have a penis between 7.25-8 inches
* 7 in 1000 guys (0.7%) have a 9-inch penis
* 0.1% of guys have a penis larger than 9 inches. (That’s 1 in 1000) (Gebhard & Johnson, 1979)
My wife and I have talked about her being a hotwife, and I like your boyfriend in that I would want her to be with someone large who can fuck her brains out.
I think something about having a small dick is there’s no equal to it for a woman. You’ll get ridiculed as a man no matter what. Women will talk shit on you, men will make fun of you. You can’t win.