Please post how you did it (can be a crosspost of your old post). Just looking for success stories from people in a marriage or LTR that had become sexless as to how they brought the sexy back (successfully.)
r/DeadBedroomSuccess
Thanks!
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/ex30sm/ever_fixed_a_dead_bedroom_mf
Lady I know went 20 years without sex in her marriage, she joined a swinging site and now loves sex so much, yet still loves her husband deeply
I left. I didn’t desire sex because sleep was preferable 5 minutes of mediocre sex that left me unsatisfied. I was the only one doing all the housework and childcare in addition to working full time. I felt like his mom, and didn’t desire him. I tried to explain this over and over, but he interpreted it as I was holding sex hostage because he didn’t sweep the floor. So I left, in search of equality.
I figured out how to fix my depression(ketamine therapy leading to eliminating gut sensitivities now healthy), and she fixed her depression with TMS(magnet therapy on the brain) and the dead bedroom disappeared.
I’d say communication is your best choice if you truly love your partner. As long as you’re both open to what the other desires and are willing to talk through the different issues both inside and outside the bedroom that can leave a person lacking a desire for sex. Sometimes it has nothing to do with sex itself, different stresses without proper support and understanding from one another can flat out kill a sex drive. If you can’t be there enough to have your partners back you can’t really expect to always get their front.?
Have you read the sex starved marriage