I’m 26, Male, black, athletic build. I’ve been edging since I was about 13. It was kinda happenstance that I discovered it.
I would open some porn and start masturbating. I’d hold off cumming until I found that special vid or pic I thought was especially hot. This would often take 20 min to an hour so I would end up edging for that time. It wasn’t long before I realized that postponing my orgasms made it more intense than if I jerked off normally so I started to prefer not cumming immediately on purpose. Because I had so many siblings I rarely had hours alone to do this so I used to wake up super early, before the sun was up, so I could get on the computer with some privacy. I’d be so tired the rest of the day but it was worth it haha.
As I got older and started having more privacy, like in college for example, this became the main way I would masturbate. I’d make sure I had a good 1-2 hours free time to edge before cumming.
Last year though, is when I fully started to appreciate edging, it was also kinda by accident lol. Last August I had been watching porn one day, I knew I couldn’t touch because my family was home and could come into my room at any moment. I’d watched some homemade videos of girls touching themselves that made me really horny. After about an hour I stopped and went about my day as usual.
While at the gym I couldn’t stop thinking about sex. There were 2 women at the gym I found particularly attractive and couldn’t help admiring them working out in their tight fitting clothes. I started thinking about when I would have time to masturbate at some point I was so turned on from watching porn earlier and seeing these women in their tights and yoga pants.
I planned on touching myself that night.
My family would still be home but if they came toward my room I’d have time to pull my shorts up and my laptop was facing away from the door so they wouldn’t see what I was watching. My only concern was if I came, I might not have time to clean up before someone came barging in and I’d be caught with no excuse. I hadn’t started working full time yet so the next morning they’d all be at work and I would have the house to myself. I decided that was my first chance to cum. But I was too horny to wait until the next day to start jerking. That night before I went to bed I pulled up the videos from earlier and started stroking. I was so turned on from the day it took me about a minute to reach close to orgasm. I edged for about 2 hours then went to sleep.
That whole night was amazing. I slept well, my mind kept thinking about women and sex. When I woke up the next day the heightened sense of arousal hadn’t gone, it stayed with me. It felt so good I decided to edge for as long as I could. I ended up making it to the next day. When I finally came it was explosive! My whole body shook, it lasted so long I couldn’t have helped moaning if I tried. Every couple weeks after that I would have multi day edge session leading up to the most powerful orgasms I’d ever had.
I recently discovered how much I enjoy talking with other people about edging/masturbation habits. When did you start? How long do you edge for? Whats the experience like? What techniques do you use? Do you watch more or read erotica?
Anyone have any discussion based subreddits related to edging? I’ve thought about posting to [https://www.reddit.com/r/EdgingTalk/](https://www.reddit.com/r/EdgingTalk/) but that community is 80-90 % guys and I wanna hear primarily from women. I’m straight and its a big turn on to hear about how a woman touches herself. PM always open and comments welcome
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/dn3ukr/m_my_edging_obsession