I [f] think I drove my husband [m] into the arms of another woman.

To protect the names and identities of everyone, I’m gonna call my husband Charles, me Suzie and my husband’s colleague Lily.

Charles works as a software and IT person for a non-profit here. It’s not a big organization – I’d say mostly just 50 people, and even then I might be over counting. And mostly all women, except for the IT guys and some of the business people. Lily is this new person that joined and let’s just say she’s fresh out of college, a little ditzy, very bubbly and just has no personal boundaries or anything. I’ve met her in passing a few times at events, BBQs, etc., and I’ve definitely noticed that she has a little bit of a crush on my husband.

Now, my husband is not a bad looking guy, but he’s a bit of a tall, sweet nerd. He’s the type of guy that doesn’t realize what a catch he is, and is totally aloof about flirting. Thus, he’s always telling me that I’m crazy if I tell him that Lily is into him, or really any girl is into him, which frustrates me to no end because he’s just not thinking rationally, but anyway…

We kind of had a big argument recently, mostly because he and some of his colleagues are traveling to LA for a work thing, and I may not be able to swing it because of my own work (and my parents may come visit us). We’ve already gotten the tickets, the hotel room and everything, and he just gets really upset that I “pulled this rug from under him” (no idea what he means). And in the argument he says that “Well, Lily wanted to go to [the work event], so why doesn’t she just take your place?” And in my anger I said fine… but didn’t really think about what that meant until today…

Now, that means: she’ll sit next to him on the plane, they have a rental car together, they have a king sized bed room in a semi-nice motel. And he’s already told Lily (who was beyond ecstatic, ugh), and the place where he works, so they’ve already added her to all the events and everything… it’s too late for me to back out.

Am I fucked?

Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/dl0dbd/i_f_think_i_drove_my_husband_m_into_the_arms_of