One Saturday morning a year or so ago I met up in San Francisco with a young woman who I had met on the Reddit BDSM forums. She was a self-described “pain slut”. I’m not really into anything too extreme, but I’m happy to do spanking and stuff like that if my partner wants it.
I like to come up with creative ideas and create experiences that I think match my partners wants and needs and that they may have never done before. I also like to do things that are very intimate, and where there is strong connection between us. I’ve always found things like spanking to be a bit impersonal, as the spankee is often facing away and relatively far you from you. So I came up with an idea that I thought was both intimate, and would fulfil her desire for a bit of pain and submission.
We had of course communicated a lot before the session, gone over good practices, discussed limits, and established safewords. We met in a café beforehand so we could check we were happy with each other before going to my hotel. She had also told a friend what she was doing and arranged to check in with her friend at a set time.
We chatted for a while at the café and then went to my hotel. I started with some gentle domming and eventually she was naked and kneeling before me. I had some suitable rope and put a snug pentagram harness on her. I also put a rope tie on her hair (which was straight and long and so easy to put into a hair tie. We played for a while on the bed with her in the harness. She really liked how I could use the harness to move her around, and how I could control her head with the hair tie. She was getting very turned on by the way I was controlling her.
There was a large leather covered footstool in the room and I got her to kneel on it. I tied the hair tie to the back of the harness so that her head was held back. I told her to breath in, put her shoulders back, arch her back thrusting breasts up and forwards. The harness made her breasts full and sensitive, the nipples erect.
I got an elastic band and got her to loop it in her thumbs, and hold it it fairly tight across the top of her breasts, just below the top rope. I looked deeply into her eyes and drew the middle of the elastic band back. I could see arousal, excitement and a little bit of fear in her eyes at the anticipation of what was coming next. I took my time, whispering to her how beautiful she looked, what a good girl she was. Then I released elastic band and it snapped across the top of her breasts with a loud crack. She gasped. A red line gradually appeared across her breasts.
I moved the elastic band a few millimetres lower and did it again, and then again, each time looking into her eyes as I did it, whispering sweet nothings to her. Each time she gasped and shook as the elastic band snapped across her beautiful breasts. Each time the red stripe across her chest got a little bit wider.
When the red stripe was about an inch wide I stopped for a while and stroked her breasts gently with my fingers. They were incredibly sensitive by now and my touches made her groan and shudder. I put my other hand between her legs as I did this. Her pussy was hot and wet, her clit swollen. I massaged it as I teased her erect nipples. She was quickly very close to orgasm, at which point I stopped teasing her clit and made her told the elastic band again.
I snapped it again and again, each time moving closer to her erect nipples. Her breath was a shallow panting now, and I could tell by her eyes that she was in a trance, deep in sub space. Her breasts had a broad red stripe across them now, and we were getting very close to her nipples. One again I pulled the elastic band out, but just before I released it she suddenly fainted, falling to the floor in a heap.
I made sure she was lying on her back and she came around after ten seconds or so. She was a bit dazed at first but quickly came around. It had never happened to her before. It was a bit of a shock for both of us.
We had a laugh about it and had sex a few times and then went for a hike in the mountains. We both agreed it had been a wonderful day and we met up again several times afterwards.
Any comments and observations are appreciated. Be safe, sane and consensual guys!
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/d9kw83/mf_once_i_met_up_with_a_submissive_woman_who
Sounds like a good dose of overstimulation. Good job dude.