OK so first off I don’t know if this is the right place for this post, please correct me if it isn’t and point me in the right direction. I will be following this up with the story after its happened.
So I’ve been talking to a couple for a while, mainly the man amd about how much his wife loves two cocks. I’ve been invited over to join them, they seem nice and up for a laugh. They are also aware that I’ve never done anything like this so are happy to go slow to begin with. For them it’s all about fun and for him it’s all about his wife.
I’m excited but also nervous, she looks gorgeous but is also quite dirty in the bedroom. I’ve never been with a woman and another guy there as well. I’m worried I will embarrassed myself by cumming to quick really.
Edit: just to clarify it’s all completely straight and I’m M being invited to the couple.
Any advice?
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/cpu8s1/mmf_my_first_time_with_a_couple_advice_needed
If everyone is straight then it should be mfm not you as M in the middle ;)
Don’t overthink it. It’s always best just to follow their lead and be respectful. They’ve already invited you into their bedroom so the majority of your work is already done. Relax and enjoy the experience!
As far as finishing early I have a couple suggestions. You can always have a couple drinks first to calm yourself but be careful not to overdo it.
Another is to excuse yourself to the bathroom when you sense the foreplay moving toward something more physical. Rub one out in there quick. Take your time warming her up while you’re waiting to get ready for the fun to start!
I’ve been with two couples. It’s a rare occurrence so have fun, be respectful, be yourself, and hope for a return invitation. Good luck!
I invited a friend into the bedroom with my wife and I for her. He did a great job (many times) so I guess here is what made it good for me.
We spoke open, honest and often.
He went at our speed until things were well established.
Understand expectations beforehand
With mfm, there is always a pretty good chance at unintended contact. If that freaks you out, be aware now. It happens. You may reach around to rub her clit to have your hand land on his dick, may get hit with some unintended spray or anything really. If you’re both adults, it’s not a thing.
If you walk into it thinking ” I’m a sex toy for this couple” and act accordingly, chances are you make the experience wonderful and get invited back.
Feel free to dm any questions. Congrats and have fun!