Bit of background: Like the title says, my wife and I just started an open relationship. Been married almost 4 years, together about 11 total. We have one beautiful daughter together.
Other than a couple women I slept with while we were on a break before we got married, it’s been a while since I’ve been back in “the game.” I’m honestly not entirely sure where to start with everything.
My wife is more outgoing than me, and I k ow she’ll pull in more than I can get, which I’ve already come to terms with. I tend to be a bit more reserved than her, and slightly shy away from the idea of Tinder, more out of fear of someone recognizing me here where I live than anything else. Maybe I’ll come around to the idea, maybe not, who knows…
Figured Reddit was a good place to start, since it’s full of like minded people (and honestly an amazing dirty minded community). Looking for advice and people to chat with (both friendly and sexy chat welcomed).
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/c28gzv/i_m32_just_started_an_open_relationship_with_my
I think you should post this at
r/sex
Try r/nonmonogamy
My advice would be to start by making rules for dating others with your wife. Make sure you are both comfortable with them, so as to avoid any potential jealousy in the future. After that, there are plenty of groups on here and fb that welcome open dating. Good luck!
I’m absolutely following this thread. The hubby and I are also in an open marriage. Being a woman, I get more offers but he’s pretty shy as well and doesn’t know where to start.
Open relationships usually are the doing of a woman – who ends up having sex with other partners 9000000000% more than the man.
You just got cucked son.
So… no swinging? Booo