24 years old and what the heck is going on in my brain [M]

So too start this conversation, I used to webcam and do dildo play almost everyday for 2 months. Then months later got into a relationship. During the first 4 months of my gf and I’s Relationship I was horny one night and downloaded Grindr. I met with a guy out front of my house in his car. Within 5 minutes we hopped in the back of his car and I bent over , pulled my sweatpants down and he slapped my ass and squeezed it. And suddenly I said “no I can’t do this I’m not gay.” That was the first and last time I ever did that. Now when me and my gf bang I think of a guy fucking me same time. What the heck is going on with my brain lol?

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  2. Well, first, you’re human – people are primarily sexual first, then quibble about hetero, homo or bisexual. Sexuality – and sexual attraction – is fluid, so to speak; Kinsey showed that in the 50s – I recommend looking the Kinsey sexuality sccale -and it’s been found true by other sex researchers since.

    Second, I was where you are when I was 24 – think maybe its due to the right mix of horniness (more than usual) and thinking outside the box. I recommend avoiding labels, most usually don’t fit, but for convenience you can let others consider u bi or pansexual.

    So. First: be more ethical about sex than other folks; if you’re more open to more types of sex, there’s much more chance of making mistakes,hurting people you care about and, of course, getting hurt.

    Plus, if you’re up front about sex, you’ll be amazed how much more uncomplicated opportunity you’ll have.

    Keeping this in mind, better talk to your GF + maybe she’d be cool with shsring. Sharing is caring after all.

    Best of luck, it can be a fantastic journey

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