So I’m a yoga instructor. So that means I’m walking around the city, in my yoga gear. You know what that entails. Tight yoga pants, sports bra, etc…
Normally, most women don’t like cat calling. But I do, I love the attention. It doesn’t need to be a blatant whistle or a screaming “Hey baby”. It could be a stare or a smirk. In any case, I love it all. It’s a very subtle way of being sexualized, objectified, marginalized. Society’s way of domination and submission, without any physical contact.
I’ll even try to encourage it. Wear 6 inch stilettos with my yoga pants? Take my coat off and have my nipples poke through? Walk extra slow and cross the street so more people can see me? It doesn’t have to be my yoga stuff, I could be wearing a cute sundress with no bra and my top unbuttoned. A short skirt, that barely covers my ass, with a tiny thong. All in good fun, so long as my personal space isn’t invaded.
A few months ago, I was walking around. There is this block, where there tends to be a lot of foot traffic from guys. They are doing construction, there are some shops, coffee places, etc… This block is out of my way, in my normal commute, but I purposefully walk down it for the attention. I’ll even dress up, knowing it’s on my commute. Just before I turn the corner, I’ll put on my heels, fix my hair, push up my tits. And as I walk down, one by one, each guy will stare, smile, whistle, say something.
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/a30ol9/f_i_secretly_enjoy_being_cat_called
I’ve never actually done that to a women. I always assumed that it just something that isnt done this day and age. An immediate negative reaction would ensue and cause trouble.
Good luck with your goals during the #metoo movement
That’s very Hot. I appreciate your honesty
Wow it must be soooo lovely for you all women to mess with men right?! As long as you keep that nice thought to yourself everything is fine, but by sharing your secret you set back a free and safe civilisation! Men again will not know what you women want, they’ll be insecure and torn between not being attractive to women like you and being charged with sexual harassment and assault by other (probably a bit more reflective) women. That’s how in archaic societies females emotionally enslaved men!
I find that really repulsive. Men don’t you see how women like that have US by the balls and fuck us up?!
Something tells me this was written by a dude to justify his cat-calling lol.
Honestly I don’t really mind cat calling IF it’s not like intense or gross. A whistle is one thing, scarily yelling and then like making obscene gestures with your tongue/fingers is another. And I certainly don’t seek it out or be all extra about it.
Also, it changes my reaction when the guy is hot or at least normal looking. It can make me smile versus just a shake of the head. Call me what you want for that but I mean if YOU were attractive and then someone who was pretty foul was like openly whistling at you…I challenge you to be delighted.
Oh and level of attraction does not affect my desire for an actual interaction. Hot or not…stay out of my bubble.
Would love to see a picture of what you described yourself wearing.
Hey y’all friendly reminder that an exception to a rule isn’t justification to treat every woman like they enjoy something. I personally like exhibitionism and PDA but I don’t think you should try to encourage that behavior with others or assume women want you to grab their ass in a crowd.
Appreciate the sharing, OP. Now let’s not all go nuts, eh? A few of these comments are pretty ignorant and rude and I imagine they’ll get worse.
This is disgusting
Pss pss , hey sexy (wink wink)