I’m 33M and almost a year ago, I was with a 20 year old woman and it was her first time, and it was my first time with a virgin as well. It was an incredible experience.
She was cute and sexy and I hadn’t been with a 20 year old in years so yes, it was pretty exciting. It was the most beautiful sight to see her naked and I had a rock hard erection just from the visual of her body without any touch stimulation despite my death grip issue. She was just stunning. Beautifully smooth skin, firm breasts, perfect ass, she wasn’t tall but her legs were long, and her pussy, I got to take a nice close look while I was eating her out, it looked so incredibly tight. I mean, I couldn’t even see the hole, so I wondered how I was going to make it fit. I would definitely need to take it slow, I thought.
I spent an hour on foreplay to get her ready for penetration (lots of oral which she loved and orgasmed from) and by then, she was extremely wet so we didn’t use any lube. It took another 20 minutes of trying to get it in, because I stopped immediately whenever she winced or cried out in pain. She eventually said “it’s going to hurt, so please don’t stop. even if i cry and scream. just keep going” I was surprised by her determination but also relieved she had said that as it gave me explicit permission to be a little more forceful with her. I lined up my cock as she scrunched her face in anticipation, and I went for a hard thrust and managed to get the head in as she cried out in pain. “sorry” I said. I genuinely felt bad for hurting her but at the same time. Holy shit, it was amazing. I didn’t know it was possible to be that tight. I wanted to be gentle, honestly, I did want to make it a good experience for her. I took a deep breath, kept telling myself in my head ‘be gentle. it’s her first time. take it slow’ . But the red mist had already descended on me. I held her little waist as I squeezed my cock into her heavenly little hole. She was making these perfect little noises of pain and pleasure in my ear. Every inch was a struggle and I had to put in actual effort to thrust.
When I got all the way in, I stayed still inside her to let her get used to the feeling. It was torture. I closed my eyes, tried to think of non-sexual things, but I could still hear those sweet little moans. Then, something just snapped in me. I still don’t know what happened, the best way I can describe it is like a sort of possession. I held her down and I was savage and pretty much tore up her virgin pussy with each thrust as she breathed heavily and whimpered in my ear. By the end she was begging me to go slower. “pleaseee , go slow, it hurts, it’s hurts”. For some reason, it just turned me on more when she said that. “I’m sorry baby, but your pussy is just so perfect” I said, speeding up the pace. “ohhhh it hurts so much”. “its okay, it’s okay baby, I’m going to cum soon” It did feel a little wrong I admit, but there was no way I could have stopped, not at that point and she was holding me close and there were plenty of moans of pleasure between the whimpers of pain so I felt alright. After barely a minute of fucking, I couldn’t handle the overload of pleasure, I lost it and started to ejaculate, fuckkk, it was earlier than I would have liked but there was nothing I could have done. I’ve never had an orgasm like that. I can’t describe it, it was fucking incredible, and I think I may have scared her with the way I growled into her ear, but I had to because I quite literally couldn’t contain the pleasure as she drained me of every last drop of cum. The best part was that we didn’t sleep that night and she let me fuck her two more times where I lasted longer, and it hurt less for her, and she even had her first PIV orgasm on the third time.
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/9ooojw/my_first_time_with_a_virgin_mf
Virgins aren’t any tighter than non-virgins, and the only reason it would hurt the first time a woman has sex is if her partner doesn’t know what he’s doing. If she’s actually soaking wet there should be no pain unless she has a medical vaginal condition that causes pain, and if that were the case the 3rd time would hurt at least as much or more than the 1st time.
https://www.bedsider.org/features/962-5-myths-about-virginity-busted
If someone is asking you to go slower cause it hurts, going harder and faster is not a nice thing to do :(
Smashing like a mofo. Easing it in would’ve been hard. I once had a chick was a virgin turned it down. Didn’t want to be her first. Save it for another virgin dude.