I wrote this as a success story on r/randomactsofmuffdive but someone suggested I also post here, so here it is. It’s kind of long but if people want more info I’m happy to try to write more.
I had an amazing first encounter last night and after a few hours of sleep I feel the need to write everything down while there’s still this level of excitement and afterglow.
First, I have to say this process is a bit overwhelming. I couldn’t possibly respond to everyone and I even had to sort of “ghost” some people because it just became too much. I’m sorry to everyone who I might have annoyed with my lack of communication along the way.
After a lot of back and forth, and some flirty messaging, I made plans with one of the first guys who responded to my post. I instantly thought he was cute and his description of himself made me melt a little. With 2 kids, planning to meet up was a little hard, so after I finally got my in-laws to agree to watch the kids for the weekend, we made plans to meet at a local bar Saturday night.
I was incredibly nervous all day and my husband was constantly trying to calm me down. After dropping the kids off at his parents, he came home with flowers, which was very sweet. Getting dressed was exciting but nerve wracking because I wanted to look as good as possible. My husband got a bit of a fashion show as I tried on a few outfits and finally we both agreed on a black dress I had which my husband says make my “tits look amazing.” I had used this date as an excuse to buy some new underwear, so I was feeling pretty sexy.
When we got to the bar, my date was already there and he stood up to great me as I walked toward the bar. He gave me a million compliments and grabbed me for an enormous hug and a kiss on the cheek. I haven’t been on a date in so many years that I really didn’t know what to do, but James put me at ease and kept the conversation flowing until I felt comfortable – I’m sure the glasses of wine helped as well.
The flirtation started right away and James was very touchy-feely from the start, but in a good way. He’d touch my arm while making a point, his hand landed on my leg when I made a dumb joke that he laughed at. It helped me get more comfortable with touching as well, and I regularly put my hand on his thigh and rubbed his leg.
After a few drinks I excused myself to use the bathroom and to check in with my husband. I was trying to text him throughout the date, but I was so immersed in our conversation and flirting that I didn’t text as much as I had intended. But after a quick call he said he was happy for me to take things in whatever direction I wanted. With that I asked James if he wanted to check out my place, and we were off.
We waited for a Lyft for entirely too long (the driver kept missing the bar and driving past us) and it was cold out (again, my dumb idea to stand outside. James tried to warm my by rubbing my back, which was sweet. At one point I looked up at him (he’s much taller than me, even with heels on) and he took my face in his hands and leaned in for a kiss, biting at my lip when he pulled away. It left me giggling like a high school girl and had me wishing the Lyft would hurry the fuck up.
The car ride is only about 5 minutes, but it was the longest 5 minutes of my life. His hand was on the inside of my thigh and inching upward as we talked in the car. I tried to do the same, but feel like it was just awkward. Out of the car we made our way up my front steps and I fumbled with my keys. In addition to getting myself ready, I had spent the last 2 days scrubbing the house clean, so I was pretty proud to show it off. I showed him around and lead him into the kitchen where we had some more wine, but kept our distance from each other, which was a nice sort of tension builder. Finally I asked if he wanted a tour and I showed him around the place, culminating with the master bedroom. He complimented my decorating style and took my glass of wine from me, setting it on a dresser next to his and grabbing me by the waist and pulling me toward him and kissing me once again – this time much longer and more intensely.
While holding me he spun me around and I stumbled – these things always go so much more smoothly in the movies – but I regained myself and he pushed me up agains the wall and intensely kissed me, eventually moving to my neck and chest. His huge hands were groping all over me, but he paid specific attention to my ass, which he had regularly commented on throughout the night. I feel like throughout this I was in an excited state of shock and probably just stood there, not knowing what to do with my hands and arms. Finally he whispered in my ear “I want to lick your pussy”, which sort of shocked me (in a good way) and I feel like I mumbled some sort of “ok” back to him because I’m a dork.
Again he spun me around, this time lifting me up slightly and more or less throwing me on the bed, which is sort of something we talked about doing during our flirty messages. He kneeled at the end of the bed and worked his hands up the outside of my legs, pushing my dress up slowly to my waist. I specifically remember him saying “very sexy” when seeing my sort of see through black panties, which I was specifically happy about.
I feel like this is getting incredibly long, so I’ll just say that James was very giving and was able to make me climax from oral for the first time in my life. Also, despite me saying there would be no reciprocation on my part … there was.
Anyway, thank you all, and sorry for the incredibly long post haha
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/9o8lcn/fm_married_mom_meets_man_for_muffdive
tl:dr Great date, no details.
Would love a part two going into the details of the sexy time!