My wife is all over the place when it comes to sex. She feels like she had an almost unnatural obsession with it when she was a child, but then grew up in a very religious household where her Mom taught her that intercourse is only for makin’ babies, not something to be enjoyed. So now, as an adult, she goes through long periods where she is extremely prudish, followed by shorter periods where she acts like some sexual demon. (During one of these periods we even went to a swinger’s club and had sex in front of other people!)
About a month ago she told me she wanted to be my “sex slave” but she was coming from a bad place when she said it, and thanks to feedback I received in /rsex I didn’t follow through with this request.
Anyway, Friday morning her sexual side came out in a big way. She didn’t bring up the “sex slave” thing again but she said she wanted me to take her, and use her any way I wanted to. She was rubbing up against me in bed when she said this so I knew she was serious. I was pretty surprised because she hates the idea of being “submissive”, but she explained that it wasn’t about GIVING me control… it was about me TAKING control. This is something I rarely do in our relationship and I guess the idea was turning her on for some reason.
Her request is a fantasy of mine, so needless to say I was thrilled. I even ordered some sex toys from Amazon, and my wife and I traded sexy texts all day on Friday. She wrote at one point: “I want to be your ‘fuck toy’ all weekend.” Then she asked me to take her out on our apartment balcony, and hold onto the railing while I fuck her from behind. And later, while masturbating — which she has only done successfully a few times in her entire life — she texted: “You know that huge dildo we have? Can you use it tomorrow and pound the shit out of me???” Instant boner. Glad I didn’t have to run off to a meeting right then.
So, YAY ME, right??? SEX WEEKEND!!!!
Well, yesterday morning we took showers and then returned straight back to bed. It all started great. I got out a couple of dildos, her favorite sex toy, and lots of lube. I had some sexy restraints, candles… I even got some ice out of the freezer.
I asked her to take her clothes off and lay on her side. Then I noticed some duct tape I had used earlier to fix a slat in the bed. In a moment of inspiration I tore off a piece and put it over her mouth. To be honest, I was a little nervous about that part, as we hadn’t discussed it. Ever. But then I heard her mumble. “Thish ish kinda hot.” Score!
I tried to tie her arms to the side of the bed but she mumbled something about me putting her arms behind her. Since she was laying on her back I didn’t think that sounded comfortable at all, but it’s what she wanted and she stayed that way for a long time while I manhandled her breasts, pinched her nipples and rubbed them with ice cubes, and then I dripped candle wax on her chest.
After a short break I sucked her nipples for awhile and when she tried to protest I gave her some light face slaps. (We agreed this would be okay.) Then I settled between her legs and started to lick her pussy and suck on her clit. Every time she got close I would stop until she cooled down… then I would start again. I probably did that for about 30 minutes but then she mumbled that one of her hands was digging into her hip, so we took a break and I removed the restraints.
About 30 minutes later we started again. More pussy eating, only this time I got out the smaller of the two dildos and fucked her with it. I was really slow and gentle for about ten minutes, then I started going harder and faster. After awhile I slowed down again, but this time I started flicking my tongue across her clit while I shoved the dildo as deep as it would go. Not sure how long that lasted, but it was awhile. She was REALLY into it, but I told her she wasn’t allowed to cum yet.
Her favorite sex toy, by far, is her Satisfyer Pro, which I have dubbed the “Clit Sucker”. It drives her wild, so while I fucked her with the dildo I carefully attached the Satisfyer and let it go to town. Less than a minute later she started bucking her hips, like an out of control stallion. She always complains that her orgasms never explode, but this seemed like it was building to be HUGE. Tape still on her mouth she mumbled to FUCK HER with the dildo… and here’s where it all went to hell. I was crouching on the bed, on my elbows, one hand holding the dildo deep inside her, and the other holding the Clit Sucker in just the right place. I couldn’t really thrust in the position I was in, so I quickly tried to sit up. This pulled the dildo out of her vagina and when I finally was able to start thrusting with it the damn thing missed her hole and started [painfully] sliding up her lips.
She told me her orgasm was the strangest thing ever. It felt amazing, but it hurt like HELL at the same time. So she alternated between gushing “OOOH and screaming OWW”. She finds it funny, now. Although she had an orgasm, it didn’t blow the top of her head off. Even worse, something tore and she had some blood when she went to the bathroom. So vagina play of any kind is off the table until she heals.
We had a great four or five hours, but we didn’t get our sexy weekend. And who knows when she will be in the mood to do it again. :-(
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/9gaa3a/mf_everything_was_going_great_until
Enjoy what you can, when you can. My wife was raised Catholic, but had and still has thoughts about being with a woman. She told her mom this as a teen and her mom promptly stomped that away. Now she feels self conscious eveytime those thoughts come in. We’ve been married 21 years, and she still squirms and hates it that she thinks like that, even after all of the years saying shes normal. Who hasn’t had a stray homo thought every once in a while, right? Told her to use those thoughts to get in the mood, since that’s another stressor that she doesn’t think she gets in the mood fast enough..
Great story.