[MF] Questionable at best.

I broke it off with my ex two weeks ago. Since then I’ve only slept with him (because I’m a fucking idiot) but I know he’s already slept with at least three other girls (four if you count the fucking idiot). Without a whole lot of desire to fuck anyone else, I downloaded Tinder in the hopes he would see that I, too, am on the prowl and am not going to hesitate to fuck another dude.

I am swiping and I come across this post… “Looking for financial arrangement” across a picture of a skinny brunette buried in cash. The following two pics showed hints of a beard and full chest. No face. Location stated “Worth Your While.” Below in the description it read “Busy professional with no time for anything complicated. Looking for something along the lines of a mutually beneficial relationship.” Jay, 33.

I’ll admit, I was curious. I’ve always struggled financially but am adamantly independent. I refuse to be dependent on a man at any point in my life, and so far my career has been progressing nicely. I’ve been able to support myself since I was 18, going so far as to even sell plasma for gas money during college. Basically, I don’t need the money. So I can’t say what inspired me to swipe right, whether the money just sounded appealing or I wanted the validation that I meet this guy’s purely physical standards (I am much curvier than the girl depicted in the image, curly reddish hair, blue eyes and a strong smattering of freckles), but I did and immediately… “It’s a Match.”

Well that doesn’t mean anything, guys swipe right on every girl in the hopes of matching with literally anyone. It wasn’t long though before he sent me a message though.

[https://imgur.com/SyioaYW](https://imgur.com/SyioaYW)

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Anyway, at the end of the messages, we switched to text. Shortly after that, switched to another number (he had been apparently using an app and might have switched to his actual number). This is where things started to get pretty kinky. I’m not going to share it all but we shared some pics and went deeper into what we are both looking for. Our sexual chemistry sounds good. I told him I’m mostly sub but will switch. I like being controlled, handled. I’ll attach some screenshots of bits at the end.

When it came to the whole “Financial arrangement”, I decided to tell him it was not necessary. One, if this is a sting, I am not going to be doing anything illegal. Second, again, I wouldn’t allow myself to truly stoop this low. Which isn’t right, I know, I respect women who work in the industry, but my strong christian upbringing still holds something on me. Also, at this point, for me, I love the thrill of it all. Anyway, he said he will at least give me $100 for gas money getting over there. Initially we were going to meet Sunday, but we’re meeting tonight. At a hotel.

Overall, I’ve never see 50 Shades of Grey, but I am feeling in the middle of it. Less romantic, more of an arrangement between two people looking for anything but. He’s demanding but sweet and it feels like an incredibly hot escapade to help me move on from my ex. That’s why I’m here, sharing my story.

I will keep you guys posted on the story. I will be letting a friend know where I’m going, his name, face and phone number to be safe. Will be bringing pepper spray but luckily it’s in a public place as opposed to his home.

Regardless, I am still a fucking idiot. More tomorrow.

Conversation highlights: [https://imgur.com/a/vbf5NKO](https://imgur.com/a/vbf5NKO)

TLDR: I responded to a guy soliciting sex on Tinder for money and I’ll be meeting him tonight.

Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/8youv5/mf_questionable_at_best