[M] Disabled dude starting things with his married [F] caregiver

As the title says, I’m a disabled male in my early 30s and things have recently started to happen with my caregiver, who is in her mid-20s and married with a kid. I still can’t believe these things are happening, and to maintain her privacy, I’m using this new account where I’ll be sharing my experiences. Quick note: my caregiver knows I’m sharing some details, but read on for more…

Anyway, this all started around 3 months ago. The state of California basically pays for a caregiver to look after me since I’m permanently disabled… Basically quadriplegic for all intents and purposes (muscle atrophy throughout my whole body). I put up an advertisement back then, and to my delight, an actual nurse (from Mexico) applied for the position. I was a bit skeptic at first because I’ve always had male caregivers, and on top of being female (I’m a bit heavy, so I wasn’t sure she could handle me), she’s quite young and cute.

After our initial interview, she reassured me she had experience with all types of patients and she would have no problem working with me. I thought, “fuck it, what do I have to lose?” and took the plunge.

To my surprise, she was/is extremely capable, responsible, fun, and overall a great carer. I knew we would get along great. I can’t reveal her name for obvious reasons, but let’s just call her Cynthia for now. So as I mentioned before, Cynthia is happily married and has a kid in grade school. She doesn’t speak much English… Actually, barely any at all, but that’s okay since I speak fluent Spanish. She moved to California from Mexico some years back when she married her husband, who is like a long time family friend or something.

Anyway, moving on… So things were very professional for the first couple months. She would show up early in the mornings, wake me up, help me use the bathroom, bathe me, dress me… Everything. Literally everything. This was really hard at first, especially with her being such a pretty girl, and if I’m being honest, I’m still not 100% used to it quite yet, but it’s one of those things you get used to somehow. I guess it helps to know that she was a nurse since she was like 17 or something, and she’s always very professional about everything, but that slowly started to change.

For example, at first, she wouldn’t say anything about the typical morning wood. Obviously it was very embarrassing for me and I guess she knew that, so she would completely ignore it and just get to work. But then suddenly, she would go “Oh, had a nice dream? Maybe I was in it! Haha.” Another time, she actually grabbed it and said something like “damn.” She actually said “hay wey” in Spanish, which is something similar, but anyway… That’s when things really started getting pretty crazy.

Like I said previously, she is in her mid-20s, about 5 feet barely, and has a cute little body. Awesome little body actually. A few pounds overweight, but she has that awesome Latina body… Thick booty with matching titties. So one day she gets me in the shower and I shit you not, she walks in with white scrubs… the type that go see-through when wet. My shower’s small, and with all my equipment… yeah, she gets drenched usually, though normally she has a normal blue scrub (like the one in picture). Long story short; boner, jerked off, came, awkwardness.

After that, things really started picking up. And quick. I believe the next day, when she was dressing me up after my shower, she rested on top of me as she was adjusting the sling/lift harness. Basically in cowgirl position. I obviously got a boner, which she smirked at… and rode over my pants ’til I came. After that, it’s been endless bjs, handjobs, and similar things. When I mentioned sex, she laughs and says “patience.” I still don’t know what the deal is with her husband, and I’m honestly afraid to bring it up, but I know that she’s on good terms with him and they’re happily married as far as I know… So I’m not even touching the subject. Maybe one of these days I’ll bring it up, but since things are cool, whatever I guess.

I wish I was making this up, but I’m legit. Everything that I just typed is 100% true. I’ll probably have her post a picture with me tomorrow, or the day after because I mentioned that I wanted to share our story just because I thought it was pretty hot, and she basically knows I lurk reddit 24/7. She didn’t object to it but told me she wanted a day to think about it (for a picture) and with the possibility for some naughty stuff. I’m not 100% sure what the naughty stuff will be, but she said that posting our story is definitely “adventurous” and it’s something she’s down with, but it’s obviously something she has to keep from her husband, so she has to think about how to proceed with it (this is where I was like “oh shit!” and just said “ok, sure.”)

For now, here’s a [picture](https://imgur.com/p1uetZ6) of her fixing my bed, next to my patient lift :D

Tomorrow, maybe a naughty picture!?

Also, for those of you calling BS, she lives like 5 blocks away and gets paid to care for me for 6 hours per day. We usually do 2 hours early in the AM, 1 in the afternoon, another for dinner, and another 2 at night. Anyway, I’m never really up this late, but she is off celebrating the 4th with her husband and she is on her way to put me to bed, so I’m taking off. I’ll probably write something tomorrow and the following days if there’s any updates, or hopefully some naughty stuff like she said… I would love to post some pictures, but I’m not sure we’re up to that point quite yet.

Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/8w8xzg/m_disabled_dude_starting_things_with_his_married

18 comments

  1. So do you have any capacity for *ahm* self-service normally, or does firing the cannon always require an assistant?

  2. You’re the man. Keep it going. BUT. How’s it going to go when her care rates start rising?

  3. Hopefully they have an open relationship or something. I’d feel pretty shitty if I was in her husbands shoes and found out my loving wife was cheating on me with her quadriplegic employer.

  4. That’s fucking awesome! Good for you! Cant wait to hear more about it…

  5. Maybe her having such power over you turns her on? Kind of a Dom/ sub scenario for her.

    Either way it sounds great

  6. > Long story short; boner, jerked off, came, awkwardness.

    Long story long please!

    Feel like you’re missing the point of the sub. :)

  7. Everyone upvote this so we can get a picture lol. Your lucky man good shit right here,

  8. What’s very interesting is I’ve been a quadriplegic for over five years now and I’ve only had women as my caregivers. I would love this to happen to me but at the same time would be scared to complicate things if she’s very good because good caregivers hard pretty hard to find imo.

  9. If this works for you, great! Have at it.

    But a word of caution:

    This is sometimes how people get conned. She gets intimate and builds trust, then she’s helping with your banking, etc and money goes missing.

    See it happen all the time. Mostly with seniors (yes, hot nurse will give grandpa a couple handjobs and suddenly he’s ready to give her anything).

    Point: keep everything but your dick in your pants still. ;-)

  10. I say go with it man and strike when the iron is hot. This is coming from a C-3 quadriplegic of 11 years and often dream of such situation. Online dating is such a bitch but am glad for a fellow cripple to be having his day in the sun.

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