**bondage dating**
today I want to devote myself to a very beloved passion of mine, Bondage Dating. I as a masochist love such dates very much because several of my desires are served. I am dominated, restricted in my movements, made available for every action that the dominant sadist wants to commit to me, I am strapped to his imagination, I am deprived of my movements. I am at that moment an object of his lust, I love this hopeless pressure, the shackles, the leather, the chains and the ropes. At the same time Bondage Dating is an aesthetic gathering, it’s an art session and I’m part of this erotic gorgeous session. Bondage dating is helplessness. hopelessness and that is so exciting that the pleasure knows no increase, it is perfect. With Bondage Dating you can incorporate all the other exciting fetishes of BDSM, whether Tease & Denial, Orgasm Control, Anal Sex, and so on …… All these beautiful, exciting, extremely lust-provoking fetishes merge into Bondage Dating wonderful blandness of a BDSM session in which I lose myself, go beyond my limits of lust and become completely one with my erotic desires and their fulfillment.
**sm relationship meaning**
I can not talk about Bondage or Bondage Dating without looking at the meaning of a SM relationship. I can only imagine a bondage session in a SM relationship based on trust. Such a relationship has clear agreements for me. I am the submissive masochist, my partner is the dominant sadist. There are also relationships in which both of them are the dominant sadist and the submissive masochist, that is swapping the roles of dominance and devotion, but that’s not for me. I need it to be dominated, that’s essential to me. A BDSM relationship stands for Bondage & Discipline, Dominance & Submission, Sadism & Masochism in a relationship of trust, respect, acceptance and openness. Only when these important ingredients are include, we can call it BDSM relationship. In such a relationship, Bondage Dating can be lived out in a session without fears and doubts and totally dedicated to mutual pleasure. The top can dominate without worrying whether the bottom wants it, endures it or enjoys it, the bottom can be dropped completely in the wonderful dominance of the top.
**bondage roles**
In bondage, there are very clear roles for me, I am the submissive part and my partner is the dominant part. Because with the bondage I renounce the equal rights. For me it means that as a sub (the submissive, the passive) I submit to the control of my partner of the Dominate (the Determining, Arguing). I do not want to discuss the reasons scientifically because they are obvious to me. For me, the role of the submissive has the irrefutable sensual advantage of being able to be tormented and humiliated by my desire to be trapped by ropes, chains, shackles or leather straps, confidentially and unconditionally indulging in the knowledge that my partner has that devotion and Above all, this wantlessness desires boundless trust, and in order to submit to its desire to submit to me and to make it its object of desire. The aesthetic component that is part of the soul of bondage is never lost. On the contrary, it accompanies us through the whole bondage session and makes the experience every time a very intimate, devoted, imaginative, trusting and also secure symphony of desire and pleasure.
**bondage practice**
**before I talk about bondage practices, I want to explain what bondage is. According to lexicon, the shackles to increase sexual arousal (in the sexual masochistic sense), this explanation is factually correct, but it does not reflect the soul of bondage. Bondage is for me the passion, the intense and essential need to be enslaved, to embrace bondage to the lust and needs of my dominant, sadistic partner. Bondage is for me the ultimate surrender to imaginative, in very different games that take me any freedom of movement. As a result, I am very sexually stimulated in a variety and very intense way. But I do not just crave for sexual stimulation, I also crave the Aesthetic Stimulation, a rigger (a rope artist in the aesthetic bondage art).**
**This was a small approach to give you the soul of bondage, now I devote myself to the bondage practices, I limit myself to what I believe are the most important aspects. Because if I were to describe all aspects, I would have to write a book, as diverse is bondage.**
Bondage can be a lot, it can be an exciting, very appetizing foreplay, it can be a compelling part of a roleplaying game, it can be an incredibly beautiful and aesthetic show (for example Shibari Japanese bondage art) and it can be an intense session (a session takes place in specified periods). Bondage serves the whole erotic HH keyboard (from harmless to hardcore). Bondage is too multi-faceted to divide it into two or three acts. The shackles with velvet scarves or plush handcuffs of the hand and ankle to the bed is just as bondage as being completely tied up by ropes or leather straps, or hanging on chains and ropes. Bondage ranges from a slight restriction of movement (handcuffing the wrist over the head) to total immobility, through lacing with ropes. Important in all these practices is that they are always done by mutual agreement of both parties and with the expert knowledge of the dominant sadist, especially hardcore bondage. Then bondage becomes one of the most intense types of BDSM erotic.
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