What a sadist is ?
I’ve been thinking about what a **sadist** is, because I am a masochist. There exist already some articles about this subject, most of them try to fathom the topic psychologically. I just want to write from the point of view of a woman who does not want to explain, but wants to show the meaning for herself.
**What is sadism?** I begin to explain **sadism**, because it is the essence that gives the **sadist** his intense appeal. Sadism is the passion and irrepressible pleasure and joy to humiliate your partner, to cause her pain, to show her your own sexual power with every breath, to express her your own presence, to make her aware that only your own will counts that she is completely dominated and and that this is all verbal as well as physical. All this is sadism and a **masochist** woman loves it when a man lives for it.
**What is a sadist or sadist lover?** Now we are already in the middle of the subject, **what a sadist or a sadist** **lover is?** **A sadist or sadist lover** knows lustfully, skillfully, very dominantly to use his power. He has this particular aroma of lust, power, superiority, which makes a woman tremble with devotion, longing, desire, and surrender. He builds up in her an immense demand to let dominate herself, to serve him to his will, to give herself completely to his sexual pleasure, dominance and his sexual play, that this desire reaches a barely enduring intensity. He knows what he wants and gets it, he does not ask he just takes it.
**What is a sadomasochistic relationship?** To understand what a **sadist** is, I need to describe **what a sadomasochistic relationship is**. Today I am describing exclusively the sexual aspect. Every **sadist** finds his optimal partner in a **masochist**. This woman desires, implies, implores, pain, humiliation, being used because she wants it, and above all because it is the only way of salvation for her. In a **sadomasochistic relationship** between a **sadist** and a **masochist**, based on the sexual passion of the two, the **sadistic dominance** of the man and the **masochistic devotion** of the woman are lived out, according to the preferences of both. The woman longs for imploring, begging the dominance of the man. I will illustrate this by an example. In this example, I will also introduce extremely intense and amusing game styles of the **BDSM / SM**, which will be described in more detail in later articles. There are **tease & denial**, **bondage** and **orgasm control**.
The **sadis**t enters the room, the **masochist** is already naked and full of longing, after **bondage**, after stimulating and treating her private parts to the border of the orgasm and then to get him denied (**Tease & Denial**) the power of the **sadist** to decide if she gets no, one or many orgasms (**orgasm control**), after pain humiliation, to get used and humiliated by the **sadist**. The **sadist** knows it, this sexual power excites him, makes him even more powerful and the masochist is even more willing to get used by him. The **sadist** plays with her as he likes, without worrying about what she wants, as long as he wants it and puts him in a lusty intoxication until his complete fulfillment and satisfaction. She is surrendered to him, is reluctant after this treatment because it fulfills her and gives her the ultimate satisfaction.
**What is a sadist woman?** Finally, I would like to point out that there exist **sadist women** as well. A **sadist woman** is like a **sadist man**, she lives her sexual **domination** and her sexual **sadism** with pleasure, passion and power to her **masochist man**. There are as many **sadist women** as **sadist men** and **masochist men** as well as **masochist women**. All have one thing in common, they want to play with their partner this sexual game of **domination** and **devotion**, **sadism** and **masochism** intensely, without shame by mutual consent. This is part of the **BDSM / SM**, which I will also describe in more detail in another article.
Source: reddit.com/r/eroticliterature/comments/8vcntm/sadist