Honestly, I’m a lurker but I came here to post this to see what you guys thought of this weird kink and cycle I’ve developed with my roommate.
Also, thought I’d just need to say… I suppose some girls would consider this sexual harassment. But I’ve lived with my roommate for 3 years now, started back in college but just never moved out of convenience. He has always been clean and also respectful, we make good roommates. In a way, as I’ve continued to let him cum on my clothes, I’ve consented.
AMA or both male/female PMs welcome
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First: I had an ex who licked to cum onto my clothes after sex. It drove him crazy if I wore it after, so for example cummed panties, bras, hosiery, and sometimes inside my high heels. Pretty much any where that I could hide the cum if I wear it out afterwards. I’m well aware of what a cum stain would look like on each garment.
How I noticed: I keep my closet organized and folded neatly. One day I thought I noticed a pair of my panties folded in a way that I wouldn’t have. That was the 1st clue. I’d say I happened to notice weirdly folded panties 3 times or so before I caught on that something was up.
As I left one day, I left a piece of crumpled tissue on the ground at the exact intersection of the floor tiles and remembered it where it was. If my roommate or someone came into my room, they would hit the paper with the door and it would be moved when I got back.
So yes, it moved and I started to suspect my roommate was going through my closet. Over the course of months I noticed my panties and hosiery were sometimes moved. The biggest clue was when I noticed crusty white residue on some of my sexier stuff, and it was pretty much only my lingerie that moved.
If I didn’t have an ex that liked to cum on my clothes, I dont think I would’ve connected the dots. He was cumming on my clothes, especially my lingerie like thongs and stockings.
This has been going on for a full 2 months now, but I haven’t confronted him because… weirdly I feel flattered and turned on by it? That my clothes, and probably imagining me wearing it, was getting him off to the point where he’s cumming from it.
What do you guys think? Can you give me some insight into his POV? Female opinions also welcome.
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/8twfeq/f_not_quite_gonewild_more_like_a_confession_im
Maybe after noticing he has used a particular item, let him know somehow that you are wearing that item…
Hey if you’re ok with it then all the power to you. What about leaving him a treat? Put one of the sexy pairs on (cum stains included if you want), masturbate in them, and leave them on his bed nice and wet.
If you’re indeed into it, I wouldn’t necessarily confront him about it because for him the fact that you don’t know might be part of the fun. (which some might find kinda creepy…and probably isn’t behavior you should encourage because it might get him trouble…but if you’re ok with that knowledge too, then fine)
But if you find ways for him to find out what panties you’re wearing subtly/whatever other clothes (an “accidental” flash. Leaving your dirty panties somewhere he would notice them on top of your dirty clothes or something).
Over time you could escalate to more and more overt action that plays into his game. (ie leaving out particularly sexy panties on your bed when you leave so he can use those…or leaving a couple options then leaving the used ones after you’ve worn them on your dresser or something).
As you get more and more overt, you probably should consider confronting him about it and letting him know how into it you are…you never know, you both might find fun ways to escalate the games.
(Finally…it sounds like you guys are pretty sexually compatible…and live together well….hmmmmm that’s 2/3 major things that are important in relationships….just food for thought.)
I’d cum in my step sisters panties and toss them back in her hamper..I’m sure she knew
Dress up in it and walk in on him
If you’ve got a vibrator or dildo, you could ‘accidentally’ leave it out on the bed, then leave a pair of your favorites on the floor a few steps away. Set a scene that reads like you were getting yourself off but ran out of time and had to quickly get dressed and leave. Bet he uses those panties twice and licks your toy clean.
Leave a note in the panty drawer. “I know you come in here, and it’s okay” with a little heart or lipstick kiss or something. Then let him come to you with it.
Huge turn on of mine, I’ve got a girl that sends me dirty panties and I send her videos of me cumming in them. Your situation is a dream though
From his POV, it’s difficult for me to say exactly, because it’s not something I would do, unless I knew you were OK with it. So for him, it may be all about the “forbidden fruit” or the risk of getting caught – you never know. So letting him know that you know about it, might just destroy it altogether for him? Again, hard to say.
That you’re OK with it and getting off on it is, however, super hot. If I were him, I’d be pretty turned on by that. But at the same time, I’d probably be wondering if things might escalate and I suspect you have no interest in anything other feeding than his dirty little obsession for your own guilty pleasures? If so, again, reason perhaps not to let him in on it.
Some good suggestions in the comments but for the reasons I’ve outlined above, I’d keep it very surreptitious to avoid him thinking that you actually know about what he’s doing. Cumming in your panties is a great idea, but leave them scrunched up in the drawer on top of your clean lingerie so (a) he definitely finds it and (b) he just thinks you had to leave in a hurry.
If you did want to take it to the next (depraved) level, I have a few ideas.
You could always reciprocate in a pair of his undies!?! That would then leave the ball in his court as to whether he confesses or continues “in secret”. If you both knew the game without actually acknowledging it, the boundaries would be implicit by your actions and things could get quite fun.
If you wanted to have a bit of fun but give him a scare at the same time, you could confront him by acting enraged. Threaten to call the police, or his relatives etc, unless he demonstrates what he has been doing, right then and there, in the pair of panties you have in your hand! When he’s done turn your demeanour right around, tell him it was super hot watching him jack off, but that it can never happen again. Or whatever floats your boat.
Or confront him and tell him that he’s welcome to cum in your panties but has to ask you first, and (if you’re into it) that you’re permitted to watch whenever you’re in the mood.
Or tell him that if he buys you some new lingerie, he can cum in it and you’ll wear it without washing it first?!?
Food for thought…
You could fake leaving for work or chores and come back early and try to catch him in the act.
If you feel mischievous, you could simply drop a hint that you know. Maybe randomly pop an “I know what your up to”, not enough to make him 100% certain, but enough to make him wonder.
Maybe buy some new pairs and leave them on his bed or in your wardrobe with a note “These are still clean, feel free to dirty them”
Put a pair of your panties in HIS underwear drawer, or take his underwear, return the favor and give them back to him.
You could also leave it alone, there are a ton of ideas and schemes in my head, but think some up and go with what works for you and the outcum you want.
I’d ask what your intentions are. Do you want to pursue a relationship or not?
Have you thought about setting up a webcam so you can actually see him getting off with them and then get off yourself?
Set up a hidden cam to record what he does in your closet!
am I the only one wondering if she is actually interested in fucking her roommate?
I used to cum on my female roomate’s pillow.
I could never open a drawer tho’
Have you ever done anything sexual with him? If no, why? If yes, when and what?
One of my favorite fetishes.
Hey I’m going to be the bummer here and say that this might not be a good thing to encourage. You’re right, it is sexual harassment and while it’s harmless now, it’s possible it won’t stay that way. He’s invading your privacy already, who’s to say he won’t go further in the future. I feel like you two definitely need to have a conversation about what’s going on. At the very least some boundaries need to be set.