How I[m] lost my virginity to my [f]riend and started having regular sex with her

**Backstory**: So I met this girl in 2015 when I was in my third year of an undergraduate degree. She was in her first year of the same course. I liked her before I even met her, because of all the hype my friends who had already met her created for me. So when I met her, it was really great. She was smart, pretty, charming, everything. After being good friends with her, I finally asked her out and she rejected the idea of dating completely. Then my life went to shit, I had to drop 2 years and finally in 2017 when I rejoined college, she was in my class. But, we still weren’t good enough friends to spend a lot of time together, just lunch together sometimes. Things like that. Also I was trying hard to get back together with my ex that entire year.

**The good part begins here**: In 2018, when my ex completely shut me down, I asked [her name] if she was willing to get high with me for my first time. I knew that she gets high. When the day came, she rolled the perfect joint. We got high. And later we danced for a while before we went to bed together and slept off cuddling. I liked it so much that next weekend we planned to get high again. The next time though, was a bit more sexual. After getting high when we went to the bed cuddling, I told her that I am gonna play with her tits, and she, completely unaware just asked why. I still went ahead. I hadn’t touched a pair of boobs in 2 years. So it was really good for me.

When our high came off, I asked her if she would be willing to get more physical with me. She rejected the idea saying that someone will always get hurt in friends with benefits relation. I respected her opinion and told her what I did when I was high, she just asked if anything else happened down under or was it just the tits. Then she told that we must be careful next time we got high. I anyway went ahead and bought a pair condoms incase i got lucky.

**Sex Day 1(losing my virginity):** Finally after a long time, I got her to my bed again. This time, we are just tired after class. Cuddling as usual. But I took a step further, I put my hand under her shirt and started caressing her back. I don’t know what I did but I hit the right spots. She was instantly turned on. And then she asks me, “[My name], what are you doing?”. I literally had no intention of getting laid, so I just answered that I liked her soft back. After a couple more minutes of doing that, she asked me, “[My name] do you wanna do it?” I was completely taken by surprise. Then she added, “I don’t wanna force you but if you wanna do it then we can do it”.

Premarital sex is completely off limits in my culture, and I was just thinking about the consequences. I was thinking about it for 5 minutes and then she lost her patience. She turns to me and tells me to either stop caressing her back or just fucking do it already. I told myself fuck it. “Let’s do it”, I say. Then she puts her hand behind to check whether I am hard. And I was fully erect, duh. “Wow, you are so hard”
Next thing I know we are stripping. I remove her clothes, i remove mine too. I finger her, she is completely wet. I ask her if I should put it in without the condom. I didn’t wanna tell her about the pack I have cause then she would think that I had been planning for this day. She just tells me to pull it out at the right time. So I put it in. It was a nice feeling, so warm, almost feels like the pussy is a home for a penis. We do it for a good 5 minutes missionary position and then I reach my orgasm point, I pull it out and she is holding my dick, not the best handjob giver, but I was already on my orgasm point so I cum on her stomach. And collapse on top of her. A few heavy breaths. Then I clean up her. She, seeing that I am still hard, says that its too bad I don’t have a condom. At this point I didn’t care whether she thought I was planning or not. So I bring out the condom, put it on, and we do it again. Missionary style, then the cowgirl, and finally I bang her from behind. We did it for another 15-20 minutes maybe. It was unfortunate that I couldn’t make her cum. But she did enjoy it.

In the night, when she went to her home, she realized that she was ovulating and that precum could also fertilise her. So to not take any chances, I go to her home at 12 in the night and giver her an emergency contraception pill.

**Sex day 2:** Two days later we are back at it in the same position, in my room, I am caressing her back. But this time it wasn’t working. She told me that the same thing won’t work always. So I fondle with her neck and her hair. She wasn’t totally into it but I put my hand behind her and unlatched her bra with just one hand in one second, pretty cool I thought. And then we did it again, the same styles again, this time I had a condom on though. So after 8 minutes or so, I came inside her while in missionary. I cleaned myself up, put on a fresh condom and did it again. We did for a long time. It was maybe 45-55 minutes of sex. Then we both just got tired. Super hungry. We wore some underpants, and lit up a couple of ciggarettes. This is the life that I had always dreamt of.

**Sex day 3:** This happened 1 week after the second time we had sex. My family was visiting me in a few days and she already lives with her family so our places were gonna get compromised. I got her to bed and she’s really not in the mood. This time though, I don’t caress her, I start spanking her over the jeans. And this turns her on. Wow, suddenly she is in the mood and I just realize that I don’t have condoms anymore. I tell her to wait for like 5 minutes.
The nearest pharmacy is 5 minutes away, so I ran through the neighborhood towards it. Within 10 minutes I was back in my home. And then we do it again, this time she moves closer towards me and we finally kiss. God, it had been 2 years since I had made out with anyone. I forgot how tender it felt. In another 10 minutes, I was done. So I do the usual, remove the condom and get a fresh one out, I was still hard when I put on the condom but I felt myself going flaccid. I tried and tried, but couldn’t get it back up again. Then she tries, she gets on top of me and grinds over my flaccid cock. I still wasn’t able to get hard. We both tried to get me hard for another 10 minutes, and when we failed, she got dressed. Disappointment was written all over her face. This was the last time we could have sex for a long time and it had to end this way.

**Sex day 4**: More than 1 month later, my family finally left. I had the place to myself again. She comes over to my apartment after a long time. But we just end up watching netflix and not doing anything. Two days later, I bring her back to my place, I ask her if she wants to play fortnite (Our codeword for sex). Her face says she wants to do it but she says no. I get her to my room, she gets a bit reluctant, like not letting me open my door, pushing her butt in towards me. I liked that, I grabbed her, her hands locked in my bear hug, and I push her towards the bed. I start by giving her a back massage, she feels good. Then I tell her the shirt is getting in the way and remove it. She tells me that she knows what I am doing. I ignore and tell her that the bra is getting in the way and remove it. She laughs, I chuckle too.
She tells me that if we are going to do it then I have to do all the work. I tell her, “fine that’s okay, but you gotta put on the condom on my dick”. She likes the idea, now we are both completely naked. She puts on the condom, and starts giving me a handjob. Here’s where I take my time and teach her how to give a proper handjob. And then we do it. this time we do a little different missionary style. I pull her legs up. As usual, I cum in under 10 minutes. We cuddle for a while and she starts playing with my balls. I get hard again, so we do a round 2. This time, I go rough on her, harder, faster, deeper. She likes it so much. She is trembling, moaning. We kiss a lot. And then she asks me to stop. She couldn’t handle it anymore. We rest again for 10 minutes and seeing that I am still hard, I bang her again from behind, I am going at it full speed. The hardest I can be, the deepest I can go, the fastest I can be. She moans harder and harder, I feel something warm up my shaft(the part not covered by condom), I was able to make her squirt. The bed is completely messed up. After an hour of sex I finally get tired. We lay on my bed cuddling. Then I asked her if she wants to clean herself up in the shower. She says okay, so I give her a piece of fresh towel, she covers herself and I know that I have seen her naked but she looked really hot in the towel. We take a shower together, I clean her up by putting soap on her. She helps clean me up. We make out in the shower too. It was all so good. Having a girl with me in the shower was one of my big items in my bucketlist.

I drop her home after this. This is the last time we had sex. We are both practicing muslims and as Ramadan is coming up, we won’t be able to play fortnite again for a long time.

**Aftermath**: So now I am sharing all this stuff with you redditors. I didn’t know I had such good stamina, to go at it again after I orgasm. Apart from the Sex day 3, we had 2 or more rounds of sex on each of our sex adventures.
I kind of feel bad that she is still not feeling anyting for me. Like we are really good friends, but it would be so much better if we were an actual couple. We spend like 10 hours together each day.

Our next big adventure will be on Eid. If anyone is interested then I would be willing to share that too, if anything exciting happens!

Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/8jqymo/how_im_lost_my_virginity_to_my_friend_and_started