I recently decided to drive several hours to see an old high school friend who I had reconnected with. We knew each other in high school but we weren’t very close. I had always thought of her as a pretty and fun girl but we went to colleges in different states and never really kept in touch. I moved back home after college to get my life in order and she moved to a nearby city. Once again, never really thought of her but followed her on Instagram and generally kept up with what she was doing. One day-for whatever reason- I commented on one of her Instagram posts. We took the conversation and to text and really hit it off. I quickly recall how funny and interesting of a person she is.
Now, I usually fall head over heels for women. It’s my curse. Girls that I hook up with are never girls I actually care about and girls I care about I never hook up with. It’s an issue I have that I cannot control. Things seemed different this time. I decide I need to see her and plan a trip to drive down. We plan to spend the weekend together. I’m hype. She’s sexy as fuck and super cool. I’m thinking I hit the lotto. We were sexting and it was hot. Talking about how I’m gonna dominate her with my big hands and all that jazz. She’s super into it. Im 6’4, she’s 5’4. She even takes control at one point because she’s a switch, which I haven’t really encountered in my life. I identify as a Dom but I wouldn’t say I have an overwhelming amount of experience with it. She’s also bi-sexual, which plays into the story later on but not in the way you might think.
Anyways, I drive down and meet her at her apartment. She’s looking gorgeous, obviously. She’s 5’4 with brownish-red hair and piercing blue eyes. She acts and models so she knows how to take pictures but fuck I was smitten in real life as well. Tight and super toned body (without working out somehow??) with killer calves and thighs. Her ass, though. Fuck. It’s so perky and round. I was very excited. Things got intimate that first night but she didn’t want to fuck for whatever reason. No problems, she’s great company. Tomorrow it is. We have a casual day and are just at her place. She’s looking incredible in her long hippie flowing dress. I’m in my all blue outfit because I’m really not very stylish but I look good in blue she says so that’s good.
We’re on the couch and I make my move. Pin her down and start kissing her. Did I mention she has incredible lips? We’re kissing, I’m on top of her whispering what I want to do to her. She’s breathing heavily. It’s intense. I put her on my lap and take her top part of the dress off. She has perfect nipples on her perky B cup cone shaped breasts. I’m pinching a nipple as my mouth is clamped on the other. My other hand roaming her body. I’m getting very hard at this point. I pick her up and walk to her bed where I throw her down. I flip her around and immediately take her dress off. No panties. I’m hard as a rock. Taking in the sight of her toned back and perfectly shaped ass. I press her head into the bed. I begin to kiss and bite my way down her back. I get to her ass and give it two smacks. One on each cheek. I bend down and spread her cheeks open and bury my tongue in her asshole. Down to her cunt and back up. Working it. Smacking that ass in between. Telling her what a good girl she is. I get my fingers in her and start working them all around that pussy. She has a very pronounced pussy mound and I’m loving it. Beautiful lips. Just ready for my cock. She’s wet but I tell her she needs to beg…All of a sudden she stands up and hugs me. I start thinking if I did something wrong. She was so into it. She just keeps kissing me and saying sorry. I tell her it’s ok. I like her for more than just sex. We stand up, still kissing and I turn her around. I decide that we won’t fuck. But we’ll still have fun. I press her to the wall and start smacking her ass. You see she LOVES pain. One. Two. Twelve. Each whimper slightly louder than the last. I toss her on the bed. I lose it when she says, “Yes sir, please punish me for giving you blue balls.” I go to town. Choking her with one hand while painting her ass red with my hands. I don’t hold back. I’m a big guy but this girl just eats it up. Starts getting even more wet then before. I keep going. Telling her she deserves to not be able to sit on her ass for blue balling me. 20 smacks. 40. Her ass is bright red. Truly looks painted on. Welts all over it. I couldn’t stop staring. After maybe 50 she curls up to me and starts kissing me. I figure she’s done. She took it so well. I told her how proud of her I was. She’s curled up in a ball with her legs crossed and she starts shaking. She came to the pain I inflicted upon her. It was a new experience. I hold her and am very gentle with her. Stroking her back and trying to help her calm down. I lost myself in the moment. It was intense to say the least. We cuddle for a while and go back to the couch to watch some TV.
We talk about what happened and she apologizes. She hasn’t been with a guy for so long that it freaked her out I guess. Only women for over a year. Women having sex together is much less invasive and I get that. I wasn’t upset but I was a bit bummed. Still an incredible experience though. Taught me that inflicting pain can be sexual within itself. Other sexual acts don’t need to be involved. I enjoyed it.
Thanks for reading! This is my first time posting so I’m open to feedback and criticism. I hope it was enjoyable to read even tho there wasn’t any actual sex.
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/875jl5/punish_me_for_giving_you_blue_balls_mf
I love this I want more!
Make arrangements to meet up again mate. If she’s that into it, keep the play partnership at least. You can get some more experience, and chances are she’ll build her confidence and comfort levels back up over time.
Hey, I mostly lurk here but wanted to give some advice. First up-I definitely enjoyed reading your story, so thank you for sharing.
I am only commenting because you seemed to identify as a newish dom. I can’t tell if you left part out to keep the sexiness real, or if you actually skipped this in real life-but if your sub is crying then make sure you check on them. An easy way to do this is for the stoplight system. Green means go, yellow means proceed with caution, red means full stop.
If my sub unexpectedly starts crying I check on them, like you did. But in my experience, usually this means the end of the scene and straight to aftercare. And I wouldn’t necessarily trust your sub to keep going if they tell you to when they’re emotionally wrecked. Remember, the sub is aiming to please you and sometimes this means they’ll try to force themselves to push through their emotions so they don’t let you down. So unless she was very clearly able to get over her emotions, I probably would’ve skipped the impact play. Go to aftercare tell them it’s ok, that you’re proud of them and they haven’t let you down. Then talk about what you can do to help them in the future and try again next time of they are still ok with whatever you were doing.
The other thing i noticed- if you’re the dom, be more direct. Instead of “I want sex” say “we’re having sex now.” Stuff like that assuming you’re at a time where play is allowed and there is a safeword if she changes her mind. in general subs enjoy the directness and exactness of your instructions. Don’t just tell your sub they’re a good girl, demand they count the spankings and tell them they’re a good girl when they do what you’ve ordered. the list goes on.
Anyway, thanks again for sharing. Check out /r/bdsmcommunity if you haven’t already. And please followup if you meet this girl again. I am eager to hear you dominate her again.