Hello reddit, I (female,31) just need a place where I can finally drop off what I’ve been thinking about for a while.
So a couple years ago I had sex with a friend. It was his birthday party, we were at a club dancing and we were flirting for a while before (he’s a super awkward person that only starts opening up and getting cuddly after drinking a couple beers) so we were both pretty drunk, he said he wanted to come home with me, I was up to it because I’ve been working towards having sex with him for a while already and then we were down and at it and I reached down to stroke his dick but then I realized…
He’s got a micropenis. And my feelings for him were gone immediately.
When I say micro, I -mean- micro. I couldn’t even give him a blowjob because this tiny cock didn’t even reach the back of my mouth. It would’ve only worked if I would’ve used it as a pacifier but well… condom on, some fucking before sleep, some fucking after sleep (he also finished very fast which is fine because I get off very easily in general but it was no fun really. I have more fun with my vibrators and dildos, really.
Either way, he leaves and it just gets super awkward. He texts me a couple times after that and wants to date me and I’m like ‘sorry, nah, I think we were just drunk and stuff, thing of the moment’ when actually I just lost all interest in him. I just didn’t want to tell him to his face that it’s his dick that turned me off about him as a possible partner.
Now, a few years later, we’re still friends and he started dating one of my closer (girl) friends who knows I’ve had sex with him at least once and she sometimes starts talking to me about their sex life and I ALWAYS just have to bite down commenting on what SHE thinks about her new bf’s microdick?
I dunno if she would be offended. What do you guys think? Am I a bad person for losing interest in him immediately after realizing his dick is maybe 2 inches long?? Either way thank you for letting me tell this story at last.
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/7so3d4/i_lost_interest_in_him_as_soon_as_i_touched_his
I don’t think you are a “bad” person for not wanting to date him after that, but I am not sure if talking about it with her would be wise. What are you hoping to take away from the conversation? Because I don’t think it bothers her that much if she is dating him…
Have they been together long? The next time she brings up their sex life *maybe* you can sneak it in there somehow, subtly… but you also don’t want to upset your friend.
Yikes…i guess she’s not a size queen
I dunno, for some people sexual attraction is a very large part of a relationship – you shouldn’t feel guilty for not continuing on with someone you aren’t attracted to, regardless of the reason.
One of my partners had a difficult time having sex due to having a shorter vaginal canal – it didn’t work out for similar reasons.
Everyone has different (sexual) needs, maybe your friend doesn’t prefer PIV sex and gets off in other ways – who knows? Don’t worry about it.
You can’t help it when your turned off your turned off, I’ve heard similar stories but girls have said the lack in size was made up elsewhere with what some guy did, maybe he has a yoga performing tongue and you guys were too drunk for him to try it on you, or she’s not a size queen
If she is dating him and enjoying it there really is not any reason for you to comment. To each their own.
You are of course entitled to your own feelings…but doesn’t mean you need to share them with her.
Different folks, different strokes.
what size would please you? is it the length or the thickness that girls like?
You can’t help the lack of attraction, but this will be an extremely sensitive topic for him and perhaps her, so be the friend you’d like to have. Never, never ever mention it to anyone. You’ll go from a neutral, possibly good person to a shitty ass cunt in the bat of an eye.
I feel like this story could be gone-wild-er. Even given the small penis.