Hello everyone, I’ve been a reader for a long time and finally decided to post cause I need your advice bad!
So a little backstory. I started at my new current job a year ago, I work at a bank and since I started I noticed the bank employs very good looking secretaries. Like seriously hot, there’s 4 I constantly see and they all look tight with nice ass and big tits. The one in this story lets call her Carla, she’s 21, 5’5” redhead, skinny with nice tight butt and perky tits. So I’ve always been a little shy and takes me a while to get comfortable with other people but once I gain confidence with someone I become easy to talk to, and I’ve always done well with girls but can’t tell when they’re into me unless its really obvious. For reference I’m 5’7”, 27 brown hair, green eyes, athletic build.
So back to the story, I had been at the bank for 6 months now and one day I see this new girl in the front desk (Carla), immediately she catches my attention I said hi and I think I might have stared a little while walking by. This continued for about the first month, it was always a friendly good morning and when we walked by each other we would smile at each other. One day I decided to do a little more than just smile so I walked up and introduced myself and had a kind of a formal conversation asking how she was liking the bank and all that. After that Carla started to get more and more flirtatious, when we walked past each other she would not only smile but maybe wink or stop me and make conversation. I didnt really think much about it just that she was being friendly until things got a little more physical.
One day she walks into my office to hand me some documents and as Im looking over them she leans over touching my shoulders and asks me what I’m working on. As soon as I felt her hands on me I felt a rush through my body, this is when I knew I had to have her. This happened a few more times where she would walk into my office and find a way to touch my shoulder or arms, I was going nuts cause obviously I wanted to make physical contact back but its always more difficult for the guy to do it, plus I dont want to seem unprofessional.
This continued for a few months and I just kept convincing myself nothing could happen and I was just imagining stuff. Also, I have a gf, we’ve been dating long term but she left for a year to get her masters degree. To this date there’s still 6 more months until she comes back. We’ve seen each other quite often (the first 6 months we saw each other 3 times). I would never cheat on my gf and never even thought about it but theres something about Carla that makes her so intoxicating. She also does not help my case with all the flirting she does and that I thought it was all in my head until a few weeks ago when it was my birthday and she got me a gift. It was a box of chocolates nothing fancy but still nobody in the office gave me a personal gift.
The reason I’m writing here is because I need some advice on what to do. If I where to cheat how do I approach Carla in a more sexual way, I live in a small country so going out to a local bar would cause problems if I ran into someone I knew. I’ve thought about asking for her phone number but don’t know if that would be crossing the professional line. Also, should I cheat, is it really worth it one night of sex?
PS. Sorry this post is not the usual sex stories you read here but I know you guys can help me out so I can eventually post something hot here..at least thats what I hope happens.
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/7oza9v/young_secretary_f_at_work_wants_it_m
So, make a decision. Do you want to fuck Carla? If so, dump your girlfriend and go for it. Don’t want to dump your girlfriend? Sounds like you’ve made your decision.
Don’t be a dick to your girlfriend.
Nah dude don’t cheat. Maybe ask your gf to open up the relationship until she gets back or something like that. But cheating isn’t worth it
You want it to happen or you wouldn’t be asking for validation.
End the relationship before you do anything with your coworker. Which is a bad idea to begin with. Don’t be a jerk.
Thanks, I really do want to have sex with Carla but for sure would only be a one time thing just to get it out of my system. Not worth it to end a great relationship for just that. I’ll try and see if shes open to and open relationship for a while but doubt it lol
You wouldn’t be asking if your relationship was that great. I think you should go for it and decide later if you want to tell your gf