The first thing you need to understand about meeting a femdom mistress is that in spite of theories to the contrary, mistresses are people too, and they pretty much like the same things that most other people like. Among these things a femdom mistress wants respect.
I’m not talking about giving them the fawning, self-debasing awe that we see in personal ads – you know what I am talking about, “Most high femdom mistress whose toe funk I am unworthy to sniff …” Praise of this kind can be taken to the extremes of hilarity, and is a fun game to play once established in a relationship. I am talking about simple, common (I often wonder exactly how common) respect that all people deserve: respect for her intelligence, respect for her personality, and just plain old personal respect. The second thing you need to understand about mistresses is that they are women (and I wonder if there isn’t a little girl inside some of them). I imagine that they like to be treated like women. Finally, they are dominant females. They can also be a number of other things in between including mothers, gardeners, computer programmers, bicyclists, book readers, and sports fans – all the more levels on which you can relate to them.
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