[FM] How we ended up getting into the hotwife/cuckold lifestyles…

One of the most common questions we get in the comments section and PMs is how did we get into this lifestyle. Or more specifically how did my husband talk me into it. So here’s how it happened…

When I was 22, I worked in retail and had been dating my husband for 4 years. I guess you could say our relationship was in a bit of a rut for the first time. We were starting to take each other for granted a bit. Around that time, the company I worked for hired a new manager for our store. He was a cute, single 29 year old guy. We immediately hit it off and I was loving all the attention he’d give me. One day he found out that I liked to smoke pot. He started telling me that he gets “the best shit” and that I should come over and smoke with him sometime.

A few nights later, I went to his house late at night after my boyfriend had gone home. We smoked a bowl in his living room with his roommate. After about 20 minutes or so, he got up and said let me show you my room. Five minutes later I was naked on his bed and he was eating my pussy. This was the first time I ever cheated on my boyfriend and I felt guilty about it, but not guilty enough to make him stop. When he was done, I sucked his dick and went home.

I cried on my way home as the guilt I felt began to grow more and more. It ate me up inside for weeks until finally I fessed up to my boyfriend. I was sobbing as I told him. He was obviously pissed and disappointed in me, but hugged and consoled me anyway. Then next few months were rough and we weren’t sure if we were going to stay together or not, but we fought through it. I left my job, cut off all contact with my manager, and promised that I would never betray his trust again (a promise that I have kept to this day) and he forgave me.

Fast forward about 6 months to a night where we had both been drinking a little more than we should. My husband (then boyfriend) told me that ever since the incident with my manager he has had fantasies of watching me suck off another guy. Immediately I thought it was some sort of trap and told him that I’d never go for that. Deep down inside though I was intrigued. The idea of me “performing” for an “audience” was thrilling.

Over the course of the next year, he’d bring up the idea almost every time we drank. He just kept chipping away at my resistance little by little. The next day he’d say he apologized if he made me uncomfortable and blame it on the alcohol.

Finally one day I said we could try it if he really wanted it. Thus began our search on Craigslist. We posted several ads and went through hundreds of responses and pictures. We finally settled on a 21 year old guy who had also never done anything like this before. And the rest is history! We never looked back. We don’t play as often as a lot of couples in the lifestyle, usually only once or twice per year. But we love it and I don’t think we’ll every stop.

Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/712q9w/fm_how_we_ended_up_getting_into_the