Ok so first and foremost this isn’t really meant to be a serious post, just me reminiscing on an experience and feeling ambivalent about it lol
So this girl and I are doing the mattress mumbo, we were both sweating like some old whores in church. She was such a freak (She’s a Scorpio I’m an Aries, to my Astro-Redditors), plenty of ass grabbing, nipple biting, hair pulling, sloppy tongue kissing, choking, position switching, Spitting etc.
So after like the second orgasm, she gets in her knees and starts sucking me off again. I’m enjoying it fully present in the moment, then she starts gobbling my balls up and jerking tha dick, my eyes rolled back I’m in sexual bliss.
Then her tongue creeps down between my legs and her tongue slides right down the gooch (The part between your nut sack and ass)
At this point I wake up outta my daze and I say in a half dozed voice “Hey!!! Whoa I’m not with that zesty shit!!!”
She ignores me and keeps eating it (Ugh, hate saying it). I put both hands on her head, intending to push it away but i realize that shit feel good as FUCK!! I said “what is you doin!!?” She’s just moaning and continues until I blow a load down her windpipe
That night I drove home, I could still feel her saliva dripping down my ungodly areas. When I got home it seemed like my ass squeaked like brand new sneakers on a freshly mopped gym floor.
At first I felt really ambivalent because I kinda felt like the Bitch in the situation. Idk man it was just something about the way she handled me, it was kinda masculine… kinda rapey lol. But I liked it. It’s weird because, I’m a man gotdamn it, my ass is a no-no zone and she violated it. It’s kinda like being on a good diet, one friend brings you a big ass cake with ice cream in it, you’re mad because you know, dieting! But cake.
I kind of just kept it between me and her. We laugh about it in conversation but behind that girlish charm I know there’s a sexual demon.
After a couple of days I just blew it off, it’s sex. I should be grateful because she was one hell of a lay.
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/62qz82/mf_dont_know_how_to_feel_about_getting_my_ass_ate
Wow dudes can be so uptight.
Tired of the stigma with men and assplay. If you enjoy it, who cares.
I’m of two minds on this.
On the one hand there’s nothing wrong with a guy enjoying ass play, even a straight guy. The idea that it’s something “gay,” or makes you the “bitch” is BS societal conditioning. I’m with Larkinns, if it feels good, go ahead and do it. Same with letting the girl be in control, as long as you’ve talked about it and negotiated boundaries in advance.
On the other hand, what this girl did was definitely rapey. You told her no and she kept going. That you enjoyed it doesn’t make it any less rapey. She should have stopped as soon as you told her no.
I don’t say how long ago this happened, but if you’re still seeing her I’d bring it up and tell her how you feel. If she wants to be in the driver’s seat, you two need to talk about that. If she wants to try something new in bed, you two need to talk about it. She can’t just surprise you like that. Also, tell her that just because she’s a woman doesn’t mean it can’t be rape.
Surprise, anal can feel good if you let it! Playing traditional manly-man follow-the-leader by having your ass being a no-go zone only limits yourself. Who cares if your a bitch for a little bit to let her be wild. Take it and enjoy it…and go back for more with an open mind.