First time with my hotwife in person [MFM] (X-post r/hotwife)

Had a really fun night so need to share! Also looking for some thoughts/feedback at the end (EDIT: And naked pics!).

Wife and I have been non-monogamous for a long time, both occasionally taking advantage of it. Last night we went to a swingers club (not for the first time) but I had the first experience where I was just watching instead of participating.

When the play area opened I spent a little while eating her out and having a good time, after she came we got up and went for a bit of a walk. This club has a sex swing that she’s always wanted to use, but I wasn’t really feeling it tonight, so I slapped her on the ass and said “go up to someone and say ‘I’ve always wanted to try the sex swing, want to come join?'”

She wanders away, and as she’s walking back into the room someone taps her on the shoulder and whispers something into here ear. I see her nod, and the guy reaches around her and grasps both of her breasts massaging them and kissing the back of her neck, which is one of her favorite things. She smiled at me as he pinched one of her nipples, then she gasped kissed him, and they separated.

She told me she had only seen two guys that really caught her eye (she’s like 90% lesbian so doesn’t go for guys very often, I’m a weird exception) and made out with both but neither was into the super-publicness of the swing.

Fast forward about 15-20 minutes and we’ve both had some more fun making out with a few other couples and we’re kinda scoping the place out when one of the two gentlemen approaches her and asks if she wants to have a non-sex-swing sexy time.

My wife is 28, a bit of a curvy lady, about 5’8″ with bonkers tits and the most velvety pussy you’ve ever felt – this guy was about 5’10”, black, had an average cock, but overall very fit.

She looks back at me with an eyebrow raised and I smile and nod. They go into a semi-private room (like 3 beds and a couch but only a doorway in or out so people don’t gawk quite as much) and start making out. She’s grinding on him touching him – he seems nervous which I find kinda cute. Finally a couch space opens up and they go sit on it – I’m keeping a bit of a distance (maybe 5 feet and slightly on the other side of this doorway) and when I look back around it looks like she’s riding him on the couch – but apparently his dick was still in his boxers and they were just grinding. I had been looking away during the transition so I though they were fucking – but couldn’t tell! Hard to resist the urge to go in for a closer look.

After a bit more of this, he whispers in here ear (or talks into it, it’s a loud club at this point and I can’t really hear them) and she lays on her back on the couch and he starts licking her pussy and fingering her. At this point I look away for a second, and when I look back there’s another guy – maybe 6’2″, very muscularly built, also black with a *very* thick dick in her mouth.

Now, this surprises me for a couple of reasons. First, she *never* gives blowjobs without condoms (except to me) and this guy doesn’t have a condom on (comes from a bad sexual experience in her past). Second, she mostly just doesn’t really like blowing people. She also doesn’t usually like more of a mouth fucking, preferring to control the blowjob – and this was definitely a mouth fucking. Her hand was wrapped around his shaft (barely touching her fingers together on the other side – and she has big hands) and he was thrusting in and out of her cheek.

Now I know she can fend for herself but she can also sometimes be a bit… accomodating? And do things she’s not *totally* in to but doesn’t really mind just to be nice. So when she pulls his dick out of her mouth for a second to slowly stroke and it and enjoy the guy licking and fingering her (apparently he had a crazy long/strong tongue and that was super fun) I walked up and touched her leg to make sure she was okay – just raised my eyebrows and put a tentative thumb up. She flashed a huge smile, a thumbs up, and went back to stroking this guys cock while licking the head in her mouth. Apparently he was super sweet and very deferential – checking in whenever anything was changing and asking very clearly, verbally and explicitly about each thing – I just couldn’t hear that and missed their initial interaction.

She then throws me another bomb shell – she stops sucking on his cock, lifts up the shafts and starts licking his balls. This is something she’s only done once on me in our entire relationship, and it’s super hot to see it on someone else. The guy tensed up as she was stroking his shaft and sucking his balls, and you could tell he was about to cum when he kind of grabbed her hand to stop her.

They all then switched positions, the big guy she had been sucking sitting on the couch and the other guy standing up. She slipped her thong down (just pulled to the side so far), and smiled at me and threw it to me saying “keep track of those!” She then lowered herself onto his cock and started sucking the other guys – it was kinda and awkward angle because the couch’s back was against a wall and she had to kind of lean over really far to get it in her mouth. She fairly quickly stopped and started concentrating just on the riding, as the new blowjob guy wasn’t staying too hard (the room got a lot busier and he seemed very shy – he was the one that had previously said he didn’t want to do swing because it was too public).

The next half hour or so are just kind of a blur. She was riding him, bucking on him, whispering in his ear, occasionally leaning back to buck as hard and fast as she could. He would slap her ass, really hard, and she’d go faster when he did and let out a little yelp. Her face got all red and flushed and super sweaty. He would play with her nipples, bite them, and she would throw her head back, eyes close and moan, pulling his head into her chest.

This was all super cool because, as I said before, she usually doesn’t enjoy sex with dudes all that much. She likes that they like her, and finds that she’s desirable hot. But other than me almost all the sex she’s had with men is either “meh, it’s here might as well do that” or like “you’re a sweety I’ll throw you a bone” kinda sex. Not this. She was doing this *for herself*. She was so present in what she was doing, there was a group of 3-4 other guys standing around jerking off watching her and she didn’t notice (though when she did lean back and bump in to one of them she found it super hot that of all the things happening in the club that many people wanted to watch her). At one point the guy slipped his hand inside her ass crack and started playing around with her asshole from the outside – another thing that had been a just-me thing before this. At this point she leaned over and I could hear her saying “cum for me, oh baby, cum for me” (I think she was getting a bit tired from riding for about a half hour!) and she started panting, moaning, and then had some climaxy-sounds as he came inside of her. I could tell – and she later confirmed – that she didn’t actually orgasm (she has *super* convulsive orgasms so it’s pretty easy to tell if you’ve seen her cum before) but I think this was more of “fun, performative, and enjoying what’s happening” than “fake” if that makes any sense.

As she dismounted and kissed him again, she kind of laid there panting on the couch for about 1 minute, the opened her eyes and realized there were 3-4 pretty hot guys standing around jacking off to her performance. She said “sorry guys, I’m too tired for second” and we walked back into the bar area holding hands.

A few minutes later we found a secluded corner with a bed, I laid her out and ate her out for a little while, before climbing on top and fucking her. Her pussy felt *amazing* – I was worried that because she had fucked so long and so hard she might be a little soar, but she was so turned on it kept everything super well lubricated and she was so engorged it felt amazing. We had super passionate sex for about 5-10 minutes, and it was so much fun seeing how much she felt everything I was doing because she was so sensitive. To end off, I put her knees up and towards her chest and fucked her as hard and fast as I could in a way I know she loves because of how it hits her g-spot, she started rubbing herself and came **HARD**. I felt kinda bad for the first guy because he was watching at this point, and she had one of those eye-rolling, demon-possessed orgasms, but a lot of that is down to how much fun she had in warm up.

When we got home I put her on her hands and knees, fucked her hard again and came all over her back. After that we got a vibe out, played with it on her clit while sucked on her nipples and gently fingered her ass, and she had another really intense orgasm – then it was 4AM and we tried to sleep. I was buzzing so couldn’t for most of the night – but it was okay, sleep deprivation was worth it!

A few random thoughts that I would appreciate some feedback on or might help others entering the scene:

– In the moment I wasn’t particularly turned on, but afterwards the memory of it is driving me wild. I think not knowing all the active really clear consent that was happening throughout because I couldn’t hear – and also just not being able to hear – was part of that. On the car ride back she said she and moaned in his ear “your cock feels so good” while riding him and that makes me rock hard every time I think about it. Anyone else have a similar experience? Kinda bored in the moment but super hot afterwards?

– We’re working on debrief – it’s one of the few ways we don’t jive. She doesn’t really like to go over things – she finds re-telling them makes them less sexy, but I’m a detail freak and love hearing every little thing. This time we basically said I get to ask anything I want during the car ride back (~30 minutes) and then we’ll call it to make sure I get all the detail I want but she doesn’t feel pestered. Does anyone have a good technique to debrief in a way that still feel sexy? One though we had is that I could punish her – making her tell me things then spanking her for being “naughty”. Any other suggestions?

– The next day we were super tired and had a pretty lazy day. I thought I was feeling a bit sex-needing and she obliged even though she wasn’t super in the mood for it – giving me a handjob and very brief blowjob. Even so I got a bit down later in the night, and had bad thoughts that I wouldn’t usually. Things like – she gave him such a long blowjob, she rarely does that with me anymore etc. I don’t normally think that way – we’re all more obliging for new people! Novelty makes us do things we won’t do when they’re on the table day-in-day out for a decade! I then realized the problem is we had sexually reconnected but not really emotionally reconnected to the degree that I wanted. We had a good talk once I realized this and had a really close/loving cuddle time, which evolved into a make-out session, then close/loving sex evolved out of that (even though I had cum 3 times that day and she was kinda done too – we couldn’t help ourselves once we got into it). So reminder! Check in with your feelings, what you’re thinking may be a symptom but not the cause!

TL;DR – Wife fucked and sucked at a club while I watched. Really positive experience!

EDIT: PS – wife is interested in the idea of showing pics. I’ll try to get some on here!
EDIT 2: Got the go ahead to post some pics she sent me when I was away and one I had taken previously! Obviously they’re just of her so hopefully this doesn’t violate the “no pics of solo women” rule as it’s accompanying the text post.

[Sexy Pictures](http://imgur.com/a/TIGoR)

Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/5v5okm/first_time_with_my_hotwife_in_person_mfm_xpost

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