Visited a light femdom for the first time [X-post /r/sex]

Hey folks,

I wasn’t sure whether to post his to /r/femdom or /r/cfnm, but those both seem to be porn subs, so I figured it was more appropriate here. I hope this doesn’t count as an “achievement” post, as I’m not trying to crow about this. I simply have literally no other outlet for sharing this and I figured it might be interesting to some folks.

Basics: I’m an early-30s guy. From time to time I trawl craigslist looking for sexual encounters. Light ones with guys (i.e., /r/jobuds), anything goes with women. Recently, I came across an interesting post advertising a clothed female, nude male (CFNM) encounter that had light domination elements. I don’t really have a clue about dom/sub, but I’m clearly more submissive in bed (I’ve always wanted the woman to tell me what to do, which feels sort of shameful as it seems expected that I’ll control the encounter). I thought this would be an interesting thing to explore.

I emailed the person and got an email back. She refused to send pictures, and said she did this out of a reputable business so it was a risk to her and she wouldn’t send identifying info. She detailed how the session would go, and we talked scheduling. We set up a time (today, which is about a week after we talked).

Today around noon, obeying her instructions, I emailed her and said I was still in. She then sent me the address. I arrived early to do a drive-by. I drove by a few times; it was a normal sort of business but it looked dark and closed. Holy shit! All of a sudden I’m nervous. I’m just going to walk into this place and…what? Am I going to be arrested? Is it going to be full of people? Am I going to embarrass myself? I parked and frantically emailed her. She stated that yes, the address was correct, and yes, don’t worry. She had just ushered out the last “normal” person who was a part of her business for the day, and I could come on in.

So, I did. I walked in and was greeted by an attractive older (I’d say late 40s) woman. I’d love to give details about the kind of business I walked into, as it was kind of surreal, but for her protection I’m leaving it out. Everything that happened afterward was more or less discussed previously, so I knew what was going to happen.

We chatted a bit to orient ourselves and make sure we were both comfortable. Then, she asked, “would you like to proceed?” I answered, “May I use your restroom?” I was supposed to add “mistress” to the end of this, but I felt nervous and it sounded dumb so I didn’t. She pointed me to the restroom.

I went into the bathroom and stripped completely nude, putting my clothes into a basket under the sink. I put my cash into an envelope in the bathroom. This originally was a bit of a sticking point. I was looking on CL for mutual free fun, nothing more, no escorts or whatever. I NEVER pay for play. However, in her email she said I’d put a “donation” in an envelope and neither of us would speak of it. I was so goddamn curious and I figured if I showed up and wasn’t comfortable I could leave. Plus she didn’t set a number, just called it a “donation” and left it at that. So I put my bills in the envelope.

Then, I walked out of the room. There was a small cordoned-off area with a futon and a rug. I sat on the futon on my knees, as instructed by the email. I spread my knees. She came around the side and started lightly brushing my body all over, talking about how nice my skin was. She reached around and started playing lightly with my cock. She put two gloves on and lubed up, and reached under me, massaging my ass and my hole and grabbing my cock from underneath. It was goddamn wonderful.

She asked if I’d been penetrated before; I hadn’t. She lubed me up and slowly put a finger inside my ass with her right hand while she stroked my cock with her left. This was fun as far as it went, but it was nothing mind-blowing. Mostly I felt like I was going to shit, but at certain points there was a naughty fun to it that enhanced my hard-on.

After this she took the gloves off and had me stand in front of her, with my hands on my head. She lubed up her bare hands and began asking me questions about my cock, about my sexual experiences, about how I touched myself. All while she stroked me, rubbed my balls, etc. I should mention at this point that she had her clothes on the whole time. It felt wonderful. There was lots of intense eye contact.

After a bit of this she had me back on the futon so she could spank me. This also I’d never experienced, and I told her so. She held my cock in her left hand while she spanked me in various ways and with various implements with her right. Sometimes hard, sometimes soft, sometimes all over. She had a little flexible paddle and from behind she spanked my dick with it, lightly. Holy shit! When she did this I got rock hard. She was very observant; she knew what worked on me and what didn’t.

She (ungloved this time) stuck her finger in my ass again while jerking me. Then she had me stand up again and put my hands behind my back. She positioned me directly in front of her. She sat on the futon as I stood. She mentioned how hard the cock spanking had made me, and I said it was surprising but I really liked it. She did it a little bit more in front, then proceeded to vigorously jerk me while we eye-fucked each other. I told her I was about to come and she stopped. Tease!

Then, she slowly got back into it, lacing her fingers together and jerking me, then simply using both hands like she was gripping a baseball bat to jack me off, until my heartbeat was rising and I was getting redder and it was abundantly clear that I was going to blow. She responded amply to me, looking longingly into my eyes and breathing heavily as I did the same, and then I came, shooting onto her bare arm, then onto her clothed chest and her pants.

We talked a little more and she cleaned me off and sent me into the bathroom. I came out and we chatted (she still wearing the cum-stained clothes), and I left.

Fucking wow. I did not know stuff like this existed. Just wow. I felt like I left a therapy + massage session rolled into one.

Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/57335a/visited_a_light_femdom_for_the_first_time_xpost