She’s the one in black. https://imgur.com/UMm8IPc.jpg
We don’t “sit down and talk” about it. That’s not how it works between us.
That’s why, by “encouraging her”, I mean, going for the intricate mating dance, where the partners read each other’s body language and pick up on subtle hints to deliver the ultimate experience.
When it works out, it’s amazing. So, “just ask her” and “tell her what you want” isn’t gonna work between us. Every couple communicates in their own ways. And this is how we communicate. Innuendos. That’s what makes our relationship hot, exciting, special and always new. And I believe that’s how nearly all women communicate, from my experience. In certain situations, you can’t just tell women what you want in a blatant way and expect her to do it. One of the things women hate is ‘men asking shit’. Like, can I grab your boobs? Can I kiss you? In their mind it’s going “Gross. I’m gonna feel guilty and if I say yes. Why the fuck are you even asking? Just fucking kiss already.” These are the reasons why Rape Fantasy is very common among women. Guilt free. No need to take accountability for what happened.
So, some background about my wife and me:
As my name suggests, SoftWife, I don’t want my girlfriend to have sex with another guy yet, but I just want to test it out with softwifing.
I’m 22M and she’s 25F. We started dating 3 years ago(When she was 22) and she used to wear form-fitting clothes that showed off her curves. Lots of my friends wanted to bang her and they told me they wanted to as soon as we started dating. Anyway, as we dated, in about 1 year, she started dressing up less and less attractive, with huge gowns that weren’t sexy on her. (Don’t get me wrong. She’s always hot to me, but she looks better with form-fitting clothes). And she gained some weight at age 23, but guys were still attracted to her since she’s got great ass and breasts with thin waist. Some of my guy acquaintances told me how her ass and breasts have become bigger and her female friends at work would tease her about her big ass. My gut feeling tells me that at least one guy at her work would comment her on her hourglass body.
So, she gained some more weight and now she’s a bit out of shape, you can say. She’s not fat and she’s now just as fat as J Lo. Not even as much as Nikki Minaj. But she’s got self-cousious about her body weight.
Her ass and legs look the best when she’s wearing high heels and tight skirts, so, I encouraged her to wear more of those.
I dunno why, but I’ve felt great when I know guys would be checking her ass out when she walks in those outfits.
She asked whether she needed to go to gym, and I told her yes. That way, more guys can look at her ass while she’s working out.
She wasn’t a fan of sex before and she didn’t read about sex or erotic stories but she’s been reading those things recently and brought up mmf several times.
Before, she didn’t appreciate wearing high heels because it hurt her feet she said. But now she’s wearing them wherever she go.
She wasn’t interested in taking photos showing off her ass, but now she’s suggesting she takes some, one day.
She wasn’t also keen on going to parties before, but now, she loves them. Once, we bought an outfit and shot some photos. And when she wore it to work, I reprimanded her for wearing it and told her not to ever wear the outfits we use for sex, in public ever again. I feared people would find out if they see the clothes match, in case the photos ended up online.
But now, I deleted those photos coz they didn’t look so good since she wasn’t wearing high heels and I was a crappy camera man. The outfit is super hot though. So, I’m thinking of telling her she can wear it again because I have deleted the photos.
She doesn’t know I sort of have this fantasy. I don’t want to let her know too, especially if I am to talk about it. We usually communicate by reading each other’s faces and by actions.
For example, I sometimes put my fingers in her mouth while banging her Doggystyle or while fucking her standing from behind, so that there’s a chance she’d imagine it as a cock.
I also tease her about her ass to get her to be more aware of her ass. And as a result, she’s been wearing even tighter clothes when she goes to work. Same thing with her boobs. I also encourage her to wear new high heels and form-fitting clothes, saying it looks good with her body, instead of saying it shows her ass and boobs more. Subtle things. So, I do these things instead of telling her in words. We work better this way. I mostly bang her doggy style and from behind while she stands up. Can see her ass better in those positions. And yes, she’s been saying she can’t feel my dick, like she’s just kidding. I know she’s not kidding.
She’s Chinese+a South East Asian mix. She’s had two boyfriends before and she fucked with her first boyfriend for about 10 times, but she said she didn’t have sex with the second boyfriend. They just fondled and kiss each other, according to her words. She said she has never given a blowjob before me, and just gave her first boyfriend handjobs and had sex with him. She also said she’d never swallowed cum. I find it crazy to believe. She’s currently working as a manager. She told me there’s one slutty female friend at work who always teases her about her boobs and ass, stating how high and good they are. I think guys also compliment on her body and outfits, although she told me it was just girls who said those things.
She’s been thinking about getting a new job since some of those companies give her twice the salary. But the current job is more stable and has less sexual abuse. I don’t think she minds the sexual abuse, she would just want the money.
Yesterday, while fucking her(Doggy Style on all fours, I did fuck her pretty hard with almost all my strength), she uttered “Fuck!” once. She’s never uttered any word before. She used to just moan really loud before.
And as soon as she uttered “fuck”, she quickly covered her mouth with one hand and I kept on fucking and put my fingers in her mouth. She sucked and twirled her tongue around my fingers as if it was a dick.
(Forgive me if I my sentence construction is stupid like a 3-year-old. Not from an English Speaking Country)
So, how do I subtly encourage my shy conservative wife, using innuendos, to make her slowly become a complete slut?
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/52qnyl/need_advice_to_subtly_encourage_my_shy
learn hypnosis.