I’ve been off Reddit for a while but I made this account bc this community has helped me in the past get through certain periods of my relationship with my stepdad. I know it sounds weird that we were in a sexual relationship but that’s the way it is and now I’m asking for advice on what to do at this point in time. Our relationship started when I was 16. It was consensual but he definitely began pushing my sexual limits from the start and as a result I graduated high school very sexually advanced for my age. When I came home after my first year at college (last summer) he was very rough on me. He has always been very dominate and I guess I’ve always sort of been naturally submissive but he took things to a whole new level that were very difficult for me to tolerate. When I left at the end of the summer to go back to school I told myself I wouldn’t ever put myself in that situation again. BUT, having spent the year having pretty boring sex, I have been sort of craving the type of sub/dom relationship that we used to have. I have wanted it so bad that I have actually contacted my stepdad who I havnt talked to in a long time and told him I wanted to come back and stay there with him this summer, even though I told myself I wouldn’t let that happen again. In previous accounts I have been very specific about what my stepdad used to do to me and what he did to me last summer that made me worried for my physical and psychological health. I will talk about it more over private message if you really want to know but I’m really here to ask for advice on the situation. Maybe it’s better not to go back but I have this burning desire to be in a sub/dom relationship like that again and I don’t know where else I could find that than from him. I would appreciate your thoughts. Thank you.
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Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/4g73om/f_nervous_about_moving_home_for_the_summer_to
If you need anyone to take your mind off of your stepdad, just let me know. I’ll help.
What about your mom?
I feel like you should go to /r/sex if you’re looking for advice. This sub is for people to get off to, so I doubt you’ll find much helpful here.
This doesn’t seem like the right sub for this, but here is my advice.
Don’t move back in with him. You’ve come to the point of realizing that he’s bad for you – do not unmake that progress. If conventional sex bores you, you can find a different dom, one that respects your wishes. And if it becomes really unbearable, you can always get professional psychological help.
Do not move back in with your stepdad… fine arrangements to rent a place of your own close to college. There are communities for fetishes like dom and sub partners. In fact there is a website to help you pair up even or get your fill reading other stories. Website like fet life where you can probably find someone who will respect your boundaries.
https://fetlife.com/
I don’t believe this will be good between you and your mom when she eventually finds out….. this will ruin your relationship with her and possible alienate you from all of your relatives not to mention public shaming when your mother is outraged. Not a position you want to be in…
What are the accounts you told the stories on? We must know
My opinion is don’t move back. If it was tough when you where woth what he did/how he treated you etc then don’t move back. If you want a dom/sub relationship I am sure that where you go to college there is people like that in the community my recommendation is to open up around campus not go home.
Side note! Your gorgeous :)
Do NOT go back to him. Even if he’s not with your mom now. Doesn’t matter. It will mess you up more. You say it was consensual but I blame him because he was the adult here. You need counseling. There are plenty of Doms out there who are less sadistic. Keep it out of the family. Get help first.
Pretty sure most people wouldn’t consider that consensual