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Title: Meeting your unicorn
To say that searching for a girl to join you for a steamy threesome is like looking for a unicorn – meaning it is impossible – is almost the same as throwing the towel. This is simply not true and won’t get you anywhere, my friend, hence the quotes in the title. Bisexuals girls are not going extinct for all we know nor are they only found in fairy-tales. As a side note, wouldn’t that make for a great fairy-tale, though? Dude, someone please write a tale starring bisexual girls in it right now! Anyway, as long as you go to the right places and stop insisting on the wrong ones, bisexual girls willing to experience a three-way are not hard to find, it’s all about knowing where to look.
We tried the wrong places a few times – trust us. When we left Colombia to live in New York we made a few different attempts, from online sites to actual bars and parties. Craigslist did not cut it for us in New York due, mostly, to the fast that 98 per cent of responses we received from “girls” were actually guys trying to get nude pictures. Those guys were usually easy to spot, since they would quickly ask for pictures before even trying to get to know the couple, what they were like or what they were looking for. We did, however, have some luck with Craigslist when we moved to California a few years later and met this one girl. However, we don’t really recommend it based on the number of failed attempts. It’s too much work and takes way too long to be considered truly worthwhile.
Diego came up with the idea, back in New York, to give lesbian bars a shot. His reasoning was the following: lesbian bars obviously are the right place to find girls who dig other girls. No questions there. Maybe we could also find a girl who was sufficiently open-minded to want to be a threesome with a guy in it, right? It made sense at first so we visited one in particular that was a lot of fun. The bar had a great jukebox and a casual atmosphere where people drank cocktails and beers, danced and flirted with each other.
The odd guy friend was usually around as well so it wasn’t too weird that Diego was there. It was fairly obvious, however, that we had an agenda as we approached a few girls to chat. Since we didn’t really know exactly how to approach them at first, Paula would sometimes approach a girl and start out by asking if they were bi, which usually didn’t get us anywhere. Others girls became curious and wanted to chat further. Some just laughed it off and went about their own business. Some girls, on the other hand, became quite territorial, as if we were trying to steal their women away – which is kind of a true, if you think of it. Once, when Diego was leaving the bar’s restroom, a big girl punched him in the arm and asked him to get the fuck out of the bar. Gee, relax, girl! We did meet this one chick there and we became really good friends. She was gorgeous and happened to be bisexual – score! She also happened to be an adorable person and we ended up becoming quite close but nothing sexual happened for a few reasons we’ll mention later. All in all, gay bars are not recommended but not entirely out of the question.
Where should we go then, you may be asking? From our experience, sexy parties, swinger clubs and Tinder garnered some great results. If you live in a city like New York, where you can find just about anything, there are some great parties like Sexxy Mofo for swingers and adult dating that organize meet-up events for like-minded people. Some couples may approach you and if you’re not into it that’s perfectly ok – they likely won’t be offended. Even if you don’t find a single girl at first, you’ll likely meet several kinds of people who can know of a girl who would be up to it and things may start happening for you.
Swinger clubs tend to have lots of couple looking for sex with other couples or those looking for single girls like you are. Competition exists. However, there are single girls who do go to these places by themselves or with friends and you might just be able to seize those opportunities. We’ve met some amazing single chicks in these kinds clubs and the great thing about these venues is that things can start getting hot in the dance floor and quickly escalate to sex right then and there if there is a level of comfort – since they usually have areas open for sex. If you haven’t visited a swinger club we would highly recommend you give them a try, even if it’s just to look around – they can be super arousing and will get you in the mood as quickly as you count to three! It might not be for everyone but we certainly find it very hot to see other couples going at it, especially since many people will make a point of turning the whole experience into an actual performance for all to enjoy with sexy props, sexy girls in high heels and more.
Some swinger clubs also have their own websites and chat rooms where you can meet other members or people who are interested in visiting for the first time. This is a helpful way to meet girls – you can chat online and plan to visit the club together!
Tinder is another great place to go find your gal and one that is greatly overlooked by couples simply because they think it’s just a place for single people to find other single individuals. Although you’ll find a lot of people who do want to find a romantic date, you will also find single girls looking for couples so don’t ignore the power of the swipe. Another issue is that many couples don’t want to expose themselves and include a face picture – with was exactly our case. If you don’t mind having other see you’re on Tinder looking for girls – great! – all the better. If you do mind, like us, and would rather not tell the world about your sexual adventures you can always include a profile picture showing other nice parts of your body. No dick or pussy pics, please! Keep it classy, guys! While guys are very much into the visual obscenities and love hardcore porn that reeeeallly zoom in on people’s private parts, women tend to appreciate sensual over sexual. Remember the whole women loving foreplay thing? Same principle.
Tinder is one of those places where there are so many people nowadays that chances are you will find those who are looking for what you’re looking for. And it’s a lot of trial and error, like Craigslist, but a lot less error. You only need to keep looking for girls and engaging with them – some will respond, other won’t. Keep trying and you’ll see there’s a huge change or an online chat lead to an in-person chat over coffee or dinner. And if the chemistry is there a lot more can happen in a matter of days…
Quick reminders:
Take your chances at…
•Sexy parties
•Swinger clubs
•Tinder
Stay away from…
•Craigslist
•Lesbian clubs and bars
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/47tntx/threesomes_for_millenials_fmf_how_to_meet_an