Hello all, I'm a senior in college who despite considering myself to be hetero, I love the feeling of anal play. I know this isn't anything new or even that unique, lots of guys do this and it's perfectly normal. So I'm not writing this because I'm unique, I'm writing it in the hopes that someone else out there that was unconfident like me, gets the courage and reassurance ti try it out!
I had tried anal play off and on several times starting in middle school. It had started with fingers and butt sharpies (stick to fingers or real sex toys, don't risk a trip to the er). I would try it and slightly enjoy it, but then I would supress it out of embarassment, and not try again for months. Finally at some point I gathered the courage to get my first sex toy. I got it at Spencers gifts, a simple vibrator, because they apparently weren't too tight on there carding policy. The buzzing feeling made me once and for all reconcile that I liked the feeling, but the social stigma was still there, so I got rid of it. After that I'd had conversations with two of my closest friends, females, about the topic. They were supportive and one of them actually gifted me a vibrator to try again after I had gotten rid of my first one out of embarassment. This was when I started becoming comfortable with it.
Freshman year of college allowed me privacy living away from home, despite still having a roommate. I was able to go out and purchase and experiment with different toys and got comfortable. But when I got a serious girlfriend, my interest faded. I knew she wasn't too receptive of this idea, so I slowly phased it all out of my life. It became incredibly rare, once every three months that I'd do any anal play at all. However I finally opened up in may on reddit. The support of the community made me resort my interest. Since then I've been expanding my horizons of anal play. Doing it more frequently (still rarely given my roommate status). However I've come to terms and am completely comfortable with it all. I wish I could've been this comfortable the last eight years I've been doing this! Bottom line is if you are interested in anal, give it a shot, male or femal, Gay or straight. It's a great feeling physically, and all should feel ok to try it without judgement!
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/3to3dd/getting_comfortable_with_anal
Totally agree. Kudos for being brave enough to post this. Seems like the typical male r/gonewildstories browser gets freaked out by the slightest hint of non-traditional male sexuality. Too bad.
Nothing wrong with anal. Nice story. I’m a fan myself!