Hi all, this is my first official Reddit post, so please show some love. I have just joined yesterday. I actually do not have one specific story to write, but I enjoy reading these so much that I wanted to put my input, below I have put together some bits and pieces of my personal, horny life.
I am 22 years old from a place which I will just describe as somewhere in Europe ( I don't want to reveal too much). I am currently in a relationship with my soon to be husband and we have been together for 9 years, yes I was 13 we were childhood sweethearts. I know that it is not something common, but we have been quite happy, we have grown with each other and we have a very comfortable relationship. We were both our firsts. Our sex life is good, pretty systematic, where usually everything follows the same order, but I really enjoy myself and he can make me cum.
We are not sex maniacs together, we only have sex around once a week. I am always interested in trying new things and experimenting sexually but he is not so keen. The kinkiest stuff that we have done together is fingering and sucking in public (which he was terrified of), anal and cum swallowing.
As I said I am more carefree side of things. I consider myself as very good looking, with a shapely toned ass and B cup tits, big brown eyes and wavy brown hair. I was a model for some time. Although i have never cheated on him, I must say that I have previously chatted with strangers on cam while fingering myself and had multiple orgasms which were amazing.
I love to be submissive, I would love a person ordering me to suck cock and spanking me. After reading some things on here, I will admit I felt really horny, yesterday I had the most amazing orgasm, I was imagining that I was being fucked from behind and giving another guy a blowjob at the same time. It would be my dream to be fucked by two guys. I would love to try a threesome sometime or even swinging. But I am sure my thoughts will be shut down. When I mention something like this to him, he would look at me like I am some kind of crazy person.
I would love 2 guys to take me roughly, gagging me with their dicks and exhibiting me to their friends, I would love to also be with another woman, just for the sake of trying it.
I want to have an fun, sexy and adventurous sex life, and although I masturbate at least three times a week, the urge to fuck someone spontaneously and rough always grows.
I feel quite guilty when I have cam chat sessions with strangers, and I see them appreciating my body and playing with their dick, seeing them horny for me turns me on.
I admit that most of the time when I am masturbating I would be thinking about cheating on my boyfriend, but I probably would never go along with it.
Is it cheating if I am showing my body to someone on camera and fingering myself until they see me orgasm hard for their enthusiasm in me?
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/3tfitu/cannot_control_myself
Wow. Pm’d.
This is a really gray area… But the problem I if your soon to be husband does not know you are doing this then yes it would be cheating. The gray area is that your doing it with strangers and it may not be considered much worse then watching porn, but since it is a more intimate experience then just viewing a video, it is cheating. Maybe you can talk to him and let him know your fantasies and see where it goes. You might be surprised by his reaction. I know I would be happy if people were getting off watching my wife and she was getting off to watching.
I want him to be involved in the situation, but he once caught me on cam with a random guy, and he didn’t appreciate it one bit. I need him to loosen up. Watching other people on cam makes me even hornier just for him.
I know how you feel. After last summer I got to know so many new girls, having started at the college. I began to sext several of them, get them to do dirty things, send pictures and videos of how I get them to get orgasms. It is so fucking hot. And now this summer I got a girlfriend, which I love, but I can’t stop. It is so addictive to know how much control one has over the other person and how makes them feel. I don’t feel like it’s cheating because there is no contact, but at the same time I haven’t told my girlfriend, so I am probably a horrible boyfriend.
Where do you find the people you cam with?
chat avenue usually, in the adult chat room
It might not have been the act that he did not like but the fact you did it without him knowing. If I found my wife chatting with a random guy I would be upset too, but if she told me she wanted to do it before it happened it would definitely turn me on.
It’s a difficult situation when you have differing sexual needs! I am in an almost identical situation myself and like you I have messaged and cam chatted with people online but never done anything in person. Personally I don’t feel too guilty about being online with someone else, but think actually meeting that person would be crossing the line! I too also love reading the stories on here and get some satisfaction from other peoples pleasure. The problem will be when we become bored with the online satisfaction and it loses some of its appeal, can you stop yourself from taking it further??
> Is it cheating Ask your fiance that question… I think you know what his answer will be. Your desires are normal. You love your man, he loves you also, you should talk to him. Share everything, help him understand that you love him regardless. Take his hand, guide him to new adventures you can both discover together.
Checked it out – seems to me like the few women there are advertising for skype calls. Did I get the wrong impression? ….there is one from, hmm, somewhere in Europe, too – who wants to be added on skype to watch her getting off. If I weren’t at work I would have given her a try…
That site is a madhouse. How does anyone find anyone through all that!? LOL
The guideline I usually go by is if you’re doing something with another person your so would consider cheating, then it’s cheating. Maybe try to talk to him about your desires and find a way to compromise and respect each others wishes
Seriously, I can barely read most of the posts before they scroll away
In all honesty, this is a common occurrence for people who date the same person through their crucial sexual developmental years, your urges wont go away, and he doesnt support them. Your best bet is to walk away from the relationship now before you really hurt him, because it is not a matter of if, but when. So do you both a favor and it now, then have your fun. Make sure you get an HPV vaccination and protect yourself.
Sex is a big deal in a relationship. You should get out now before you are both unhappily married.