My(31) wife(31) and I have had an open marriage for 5 years. I finally experienced it (Warning: Long)

A little background: My wife and I met in high school. We've been together now almost 16 years, married for 9. We lost our virginity to each other, And had been each others one and only for the longest time.

Around 2008 I saw her browser history. It was full of women being fucked by two or more men. Not wanting secrets I brought this up to her and asked it if was something she wanted. She said it was a fantasy and we left it at dirty talk during sex a few times. Then it became every time we had sex, the idea of fucking someone else came up. I eventually opened up to the idea and it almost became a fetish for me, to share her. It finally happened one night (memorial day weekend 2010) with a very good friend (who I am still friends with). After a night of drinking one thing lead to another and a MFM was had. Lots of fun. This went on for a few years, with me never considering having sex with someone else.

Around 2011 we both agreed that an "open marriage" was something we would be ok trying. She had no trouble finding guys to fuck her and I became very aware of the fact that it is not so easy for a guy to have a FWB, while being married. No one was interested.

So I waited…and waited. I looked and looked. Talked to countless women. All of whom weren't interested in me, the arrangement or thought I was lying just to cheat on my wife. I had given up several times, i'd stop looking for months at a time and then start trying again. Nothing ever panned out, until 2 weeks ago.

I had made a post on r/ohior4r[1] looking for a FWB. It had gotten nothing. I had stopped checking this account's messages because nothing ever came in. But on this chance day, someone did. Just a simple, "hey, I'm kinda close and looking for the exact same thing. here's my contact info". This had happened before and nothing ever came of it, so I didn't get my hopes up.

I was wrong. I dropped her a message on KIK and we clicked right away. What we were looking for, what our situation was. She was just like my wife (high sex drive, love of kinky dirty sex), even worked at a location I had previously worked at (at the same time). It was almost too good to be true.

Then it was time to send a picture. This is where I always lost them (this and one other). I'm a bigger guy, I wont lie. I know this, and accept that not all women are into bigger guys, but she didn't flinch. She was very attractive (probably too hot for me). But she dug me. It was new, it was weird. Then the question every guy asks came up (i asked), "Does size matter?". "No, i fuck people not dicks".

I had never gotten this far with another woman before. I was nervous as fuck about finally meeting her. I'm an introvert to the core. Shy guy, very quiet. When ever I poked fun at myself she was there to correct me, boosted my confidence (something I didn't have a lot of).

When it was finally time to meet in person I was terrified. What do I do? Do I hug her? Do I kiss her? My wife must have been annoyed with me, "You'll be fine. You're sexy, you're a good fuck. You will be fine, stop worrying".

But I'm me. I have to worry. Id only kissed one woman. I'd only fucked one woman. Sure I can make her cum, but who's to say i'm actually any good at sex? So we meet for lunch. And we eat and talk for almost two hours. It was weird being on a "date" with someone after 15 years. But we had a good time. We took a drive to the local reservoir to take walk. We walked for a bit and found a secluded bench on a walking trail. We sat down and talked more. The tension was thick. I was scared shitless about making any sort of move, it had been years, i don't know what the fuck i'm doing.

Several awkward pauses and looks she finally says "You can kiss me you know…" So here goes, kissing a woman who is not my wife for the first time. She was into it. Hard. She didn't hesitate, she pulled me in and kissed me deep. I decided to say fuck it and made a move toward her breast (which was previously discussed as something she loves) and she let out a moan, i was in. We kept stopping and starting. Kissing her neck and collarbone while massaging her breast. I figured i'm this far, lets see how far I can go. I slid my hand down to her thigh, then up and up to her crotch. I start rubbing her clit through her pants. She moans, her pussy is already hot (i can feel it through her jeans).

After a minute of that she says "Lets see what we can get into in 15 minutes". We sneak into the woods off the trail and stop against a big tree. I lean her against the tree and head back into kissing her and rubbing her tits, then back to rubbing her pussy and kissing her neck. She stops and says "I can do two things, I can drop to my knees, or I can show you something."

"What are you going to show me?" She pulls her shirt up and pulls her tits out (lovely 34b). I dive in and start sucking and licking her nipples. She slides her hand down her pants and starts rubbing her clit. "let me do that for you". I slid my hand in and start rubbing her clit. Wet is not a word I would use to describe her, she was soaked. I slid a finger into a woman, who's not my wife, and she gasps. I finger her for a few minutes and go back to rubbing her clit hard and fast. She starts moaning "Don't stop, don't stop, I'm going to cum". I keep going, her legs start to shake. She doesn't cum as she's afraid of falling, but i keep going anyway.

I would have been content if this is all that happened. But as I'm rubbing her clit, she whispers to me something I will hold onto for ever: "I want you to fuck me…". "Are you sure? I don't have a condom." She starts unbuttoning her pants as she says "Just pullout and cum on my ass". She didn't have to tell me twice. She pulls down her pants, turns around and bends over, bracing herself against the tree.

I undo my pants, and pull down my jeans and boxers, I grab my cock and hesitate for a moment, thinking "This is really happening". I slid the head of my dick up and down the outside of her pussy, and for the first time in 15 years, my cock enters another woman. That feeling was indescribable. She gripped me and almost pulled me into her. She was dripping wet, and hot. Not warm, her pussy was hot and wanted my cock. I go slow at first savoring the feeling of her, she was tight. Unbelievably tight. I start picking up the pace and grab onto her hips. Then i'm pounding deep and hard. I hear her quiet gasps of "oh fuck…yea…fuck me…oh god" which is only motivation to keep going. If felt like an hour, but was probably 10 minutes of my fucking her against this tree, her shoulder banging into it. She felt amazing. She tasted amazing (I snuck a taste off my fingers), she smelled amazing. My legs started to cramp from the way we were standing so I stopped and pulled out. "Sorry, my legs, i need a minute"

She drops to her knees and without hesitation swallowed my cock. If you could have seen my face i'm sure it was the face Ray makes when he gets ghost head in Ghostbusters (sorry to kill the mood but its the best description of how it felt). She sucked my cock like an artist, it was masterful. She takes my dick out of her mouth and starts stroking me, "Cum on me…please? Please cum on me". I take over and look her in the eyes as she is playing with her tits and begging for my cum. Then I cum, one of the biggest loads I think I have ever shot, all over her tits.

After cleaning up we notice people sitting on the bench we were on, so we tried to exit the woods as far as we could from them. I think they knew. We get back to my car and I take her back to hers. A couple kisses good bye and we go our separate ways. Only to meet again this coming Friday for a proper fuck.

Another woman had just wanted me to fuck her, and wanted my cum. She's not my wife. This was someone new and different. It was new, exciting, terrifying. I loved it. Now I know what my wife has been experiencing all this time. Friday can't some soon enough. The wife got fuck good and hard that night.

TLDR: After having an open marriage for 5 years, finally had sex with a woman who was not my wife. Thank you Reddit.

Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/3q5d9z/my31_wife31_and_i_have_had_an_open_marriage_for_5

17 comments

  1. Congrats! I’ve been in an open relationship with my wife for 3 or 4 years now. I’ve had good luck finding partners/playmates organically through our circle of friends, by flirting. It depends on being able to be somewhat open about the nature of your marriage, though, which isn’t an option for everyone.

  2. Congrats! Sharing the sexual side of a coupledom can be really hot. Just remember to keep LOTS of communication going between you and your wife. Little things grow into big things.

  3. > "Are you sure? I don’t have a condom." Did you plan on having a platonic meeting? Keep in mind you’re having sex with a woman you just met, who has no problem going without a condom. You are not likely the only guy who’s done her without protection. Sorry about the nag, the rest of the story was good =)

  4. Awesome! Congratulations! I know the feeling of being a male looking for other girlfriends in an ethical non-monogamy situation. It’s tough, particularly if you are not that outgoing.

  5. After he said "im a bigger guy" and "I like to poke fun at myself" I read the rest of the story in Patton Oswalt’s voice!

  6. Wow…glad you finally got your chance, I agree with the group here…communication is key

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