Haley and I have been a little more open with our more understanding friends about being poly and having fwbs recently. Most of them either had some idea already or after the shock mentioned it was very like us. They have immediately accepted Ian as Haleys boyfriend (after making sure I was totally good with it). We were talking to one friend Lisa when she reacted in a completely different way.
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Lisa: Lucky bitch you have two hotties in your bed and I can't even handle one. (I'm still smiling at being called a hottie).
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Haley: You'll get one soon babe just be brave and don't forget to flirt.
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Lisa: It's not that. My pelvis thing means sex is sorta off the table. When I get close to orgasm and everything tenses it gets really uncomfortable. I either have to rush to orgasm or stop. No guy is going to want that and it's not something I want to screen at the dating stage. Dating with a crutch is bad enough.
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[With her permission: Lisa has a misshapen pelvis and has had a lot of surgery. The ball of scar tissue inside her means she gets horribly sensitive and it pulls against her nerves painfully when she gets tensed up. Periods for her are spent curled up, drugged up and crying. Thankfully she hasn't had one in two years thanks to her implant.]
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Haley: The right guy won't care. Get a guy like Kai and he will not stop until you are floating with orgasm. He will find a way. (There's a blushworthy amount of praise here I'll try to only add the relevant bits).
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Lisa: Don't suppose I could borrow him lol. It's okay I know poly doesn't work that way.
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Haley: It doesn't but fwbs do! If you are serious then say and I'll put it to him.
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Lisa: Babe I haven't had cuddles with a man for over 5 years let alone anything else. I'm in if he is. Even if it's curled up on the sofa with some kissing. I miss it so much.
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At this point I'll fast forward. We set the date for tonight (Saturday night UK) and we posted on /r/xxsex to ask for tips. I learned about the U spot, K spot and all sorts but I'm going to go with the flow.
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We have a general plan now (our friend knows very ltitle of so it flows). We've got some awesome bath stuff and after cuddling up with a film we are going to have a real pampering bath together (Lush ftw) and just enjoy being pressed against each other. Then I'm going to give her a massage while kissing neck, shoulders etc including a scalp massage that my wife informs me gets her wet but not turned on to the uncomfortable level. Once she is massaged and chilled we are going to go to bed and put on some music for snogging and feeling our bodies against each other again then when she's ready we are going to try some of the more technical things my helpers on /r/xxsex have suggested. She also wants to take time enjoying me because "it's been a while since I've hand my hands on a man that way". The rest will just be taking it slow and looking for body language.
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I have told her about posting on Reddit and she agreed. When she's brave enough she will read and maybe even comment. She's about 5'6" with dark olive skin, dark hair and from the pic we have been sent dark brown nipples. She wants to see a guy ejaculate up close and spoon naked. The follow up story to this will probably not be as explicit as my others but I will describe everything I can.
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I'm off in 2 hours and need to finish manscaping wish me luck.
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/3kotis/35f34m34ishf_a_set_up_story_for_tonight_im
How did it go?
Awesome. I’ll post the full story tonight when I’ve finished writing it. We took our time and I slept over then we went more adventurous the following morning.