I'm pretty nervous about posting here, first time, so don't be too hard on me ;)
I'm a 23 year old blonde with a full time job, and I like to have sex. I was in a relationship throughout college that didn't work out, and I haven't really been dating so much as having fun (safely) in the last two years or so while I settle into a career.
For the past couple weeks, I've been messaging someone who is interested in something no-strings. Because he doesn't really get all that he wants.. from his wife.
I think cheating is unacceptable… But if he's going to do it, I could enjoy it. He loves his wife but just isn't getting laid.
I think it's a turn-on to be with an experienced, married man. He told me he can't wait to feel my body and fuck me with his fingers, suck on my breasts.
How can I resist?
I have mixed feelings, but not enough to deter me. I'm looking forward to helping him feel the way he likes. ;)
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/3g5vf9/thinking_about_going_a_little_wild_23f
Go for it!! Life is too short to have any regrets and you are not doing anything wrong. He’s gonna do it no matter what. If you are this turned on by the thought of it then it may end up being the best sex of your life. If he sucks you will still walk away with no regrets!!!
Thanks for that! Just how I feel :)
Let me know what you decide to do and how it goes :)
This is from a male point of view. I have been married for 10 years now. and yes sex has slacked off greatly. I would LOVE to have it more often. But, I took VOWS, and I respect them. The person you are referring too, They don’t respect the vows so do you think they respect you? Your only 23.. And you know the college life. Go hit the clubs that most college kids go to and let some freshman or such get lucky!. FYI, if he isn’t getting any at home, he isn’t as experienced as you think, and also, you only have HIS word he isn’t happy at home. Sorry, he isn’t a man to me… Think before you become a home wrecker.
Will do ;)
Can you be a home wrecker if he’s already cheated?
Can’t wait to hear more, hope it all goes smoothly for you. I bet he will enjoy some new pussy in his life :)
fredbear..don’t agree with a few things. First of all your FYI about not getting enough at home means he’s not that experienced? What? I’ve been married over a dozen years, I’m very experienced and fucking good at sex and I don’t get hardly any at home. Marriage is peaks and valleys as you know.Women are wildly different from 20 – 30-40-50. Just that. On the upside side for her, she will enjoy a couple things, number one being the total attention and focus of being pleasured with a man that has known what its been like to have the best sex of his life and what it’s like to have no more of it, not like it was anyways. So she will be very well treated. Second, it’s unlikely, if she has wisely screened the guy to being trustworthy and believable then she won’t get an STD, or worse some cling on, stalker, over aggressive little punk. It’s all up on her side as long as they are clear that she can’t steal him and he doesn’t want to leave the marriage. I make no judgement one way or the other about the morality of it. Just saying that it could be very satisfying and a safe sex arrangement for her. His choices are his problem.
and before you point it out, yes I realize the oxymoron of saying he’s trustworthy and believable while seeking to be unfaithful to his wife.
I don’t think so… sounds like the home was wrecked long before you. Living with no regrets and learning from mistakes is much better than no mistakes and full of regrets
"that she can’t steal him" that made me giggle :) thanks for being understanding!
If he has already cheated then yes, you can be the one he gets caught with. And if he has before, that makes him even more of a low life. sorry, I don’t condone cheating for any reason. your unhappy in a relationship, get out of it.
granted he may be experienced, seems from what I seen he cheated before. Sorry, I have the LOWEST opinion of cheaters. If you are not happy in a relationship, leave it.
He’s not unhappy in it, just isn’t perfect. I understand what you’re saying though, really do.
maybe he has maybe he hasn’t. doesn’t matter. attention from an attractive 20 something is powerful stuff. I too don’t have much regard for cheaters. But I can say I haven’t because my wife is wonderful and I could never live with breaking my child’s heart by causing such hurt. A strong man can get over lags in sex if the marriage has intimacy and tenderness. If she’s a stone cold bitch then I agree. Leave. Then get some.
you seem really nice, and I am all for having fun, just respect yourself. Until I was 27, I was the wild one too. I wanted to try it all. And for the most part I did. Only regret I have is cheating. ANYONE that’s single, have fun, but also be careful of STDs and unwanted pregnancy’s.
Coming from a sex addict who was the one that ruined the marriage, you can go either way, you would ruin his marriage if he got caught, but at the same time, it’s nothing on you, you get a few hateful emails and calls, but it’s him ultimately that gets the full hit. If you want to experience a married man, just realize it comes with a lot of baggage if things go wrong, it will probably be some rocking sex, cause I made sure my mistresses were completely satisfied, but will be a lot of baggage. Good luck either way you go, have fun and be safe
I think you’d end up regretting it. Just because he’s going to cheat anyway doesn’t mean it’s okay for you to help him do it. You’ll still be partially responsible. If he’s looking to cheat with random people he’s likely not a good guy and you don’t want to be a part of that My advice is to find someone single to have nsa sex, if that’s what you’re looking for
If you think cheating is unacceptable, then you have your answer right there.
Why did you cheat?
When the wife shows up at your door with a knife in her hand, just know you had a choice not to pursue this. There are plenty of older single guys out there just looking to fuck, don’t put yourself into a sketchy situation.
Try r/relationships
Let me know how it goes :)
Don’t you guys know how this works. If she is with you, it’s just your turn. She could be gone tomorrow. And you guys have the same option. TRP
I say, go fuck his brains out and he will likely do the same for you. My wife has been disabled for more than 10 years. I held out for 8 of them before I just couldn’t take never having sex again. I still love her and take good care of her, but I have needs that porn and a tube of lube just don’t meet. I was lucky enough to find a much younger single woman that has little time for dating because of her career so we fill a void for each other.