I arrive at your door and you let me in. We discuss any boundaries you have for this first session, and you tell me I’m ok to do whatever I want to do to you with my hands and mouth, but nothing else. I let you know that I have the same boundaries, but as discussed previously, there’s no need for you to reciprocate. I also reiterate that if you change your mind at any point, say the word and we’ll adjust or stop.
I can see that you’re nervous, I am too. I ask if you need a few minutes to chat prior to beginning, and you shake your head, and motion for me to follow you. You lead me to your bedroom, disrobe and ask how I want you. I tell you that we’ll start with you face down. I ask how you want me, and you say I’m fine as I am. I nod and you lay down on your bed, facing away from me.