So to preface, one of my exs always participates in no nut november (which was really annoying when I was dating him, but hey to each his own!) So a few years after we broke up I went to a small get together, we were all just smoking and drinking and watching some movies. I did not realize but my friend had invited my ex. I was still hung up on him but she did not realize that so she did not even think to warn me. He walked in and really the only spot left was beside me so he sat down next to me. At first I was too tense and actively making sure that I did not brush against him, but as the night went on I smoked a little more and got more comfortable, snuggling into him.
I’m not sure when I made the realization but at some point in the evening I realized holy shit this is the last night of November, so I decided to start teasing him a little. “Absentmindedly” running my hand up and down his arm every time he started talking to me. At one point I put my hand on his thigh as I started laughing and just decided to leave my hand there. I could feel him squirming but I knew that he was not minding it.