Before I get into this, let me say: This is a big secret of mine. Let me also say: I think it’s something all women should do if they have a chance. Because honestly? This was a life-changing experience.
Back in 2018, I read about this guy in Manhattan whose side hobby is giving erotic massages to women. He has a very special set of skills, so to speak. He’s been written up allll over the internet.
Naturally, I was curious. Massages with a surprise ending have always been a huge fantasy of mine—whenever I used to get a normal massage, I’d hope the masseuse’s hands would somehow drift toward my warm and pulsing regions. But it never happened.
So I kept thinking about this mysterious man—especially as my long-term relationship was declining rapidly. My ex and I were *not* compatible in the bedroom. He had a fairly low sex drive; I’m like the energizer bunny. Plus, he didn’t give me an orgasm for the first three months we started dating, and after that, was extremely sporadic. It’d come down to me begging for him to put in effort and touch me.