When I traveled, pre-COVID, part of my planning was to always book a hotel that has a spa or is near a spa. Spa time is an important part of my day when one is available and I set time aside for it like all the other activities of the day. Although I am straight, married, kids, *I am bi curious and exploring my sexuality is a thing for me*.
One of my primary vehicles to understand this is immersing myself in situations where I can be with other guys in the nude. It can be as simple as a nude beach, like Gunnison (NJ) or Haulover (FL) and it is a bit more complicated at a gym or spa. Somewhere around puberty I realized that while I loved tits and poontang, a great looking penis also catches my attention. For those who might have an interest in looking, a subtle way of calling attention is that I go commando. It is also important to know that I never cover up, my towel goes around my shoulders, unless the vibe is such that being seen nude is inappropriate.