This past summer, something incredible happened. My husband and I had been looking for a way to mix up our marriage a bit. We talked about our mutual desire to have an open marriage as long as we both agreed to be safe. We were nervous, though, and we both confessed that maybe our first time having sex with someone else would need to be together, like with another couple. We got online and signed up for an anonymous group for swingers, and through some online discussions we learned about a “spa” just a few hours from our home that offered “special services” for couples and might be a perfect first-time experience. My husband and I talked about it for a while and after reading more about it and looking into the website for the “spa,” we decided to give it a try and registered for a couple’s treatment. There were several tests we had to complete that included a survey and a health screening with our physician. We sent all this info to the address provided and waited. About a month later we received an email with the location and appointment time.