this weekend, I told my wife (who usually go to bed much earlier than me) that when I came to bed the night before I had come to snuggle up behind her, and that i caress and grope her breasts for a good half hour.
She was surprised because she hadn’t realized it. I told her that it was superhot.
She replies that as long as I don’t wake her up, I can do it whenever I want. And she adds: anyway you can do what you want, as long as you don’t prevent me from sleeping.
We have a fulfilling sex life (even if between the fatigue of work and the kids, it’s not always easy to find time for ourselves). But as I get older I am more and more aware of feminist issues and the notion of consent.
I told her that it was not very sure of that. That I’ll feel like I’m raping her a bit
It’s true that in 14 years of union we have a sexuality without taboo (anal and facial included) and that it is with her that I understood that i could have a dominant side and that i can love that sometimes she’s little submissive, without being a perfect asshole and an almost fascist masculinist…