(M33) HELP! I HAVE QUESTIONS ABOUT WRITING EROTICA

Hi, so I’m not new to writing fiction but I am new to writing erotica. I have a lot of ideas and I want to write mostly from the female’s perspective around themes of the first time being a stripper, exhibitionism in general and bondage but I like really going into the psychological aspects of what the character would be thinking, feeling and experiencing. Does anyone think this would be a good approach or do most people reading this only care about the sexual content on a “physical” level and not psychological? Aside from that, what are your favourite things that I could apply to any erotica story?