I’m 8 years younger than my husband Ewan. This has never been a problem for us as I’ve only ever dated slightly older guys. We married when I was 23, so I’d only had a couple of longish (for that age) relationships by then, but when we met we both knew it was right and tied the knot pretty quickly with no regrets. Well I say that, and it is true, but I do sometimes feel that it would have been nice to play the field a bit longer.
We have great sex together. Ewan is an enthusiastic and inventive lover and does love to please me. We talk about sex quite a bit. It’s a good way to explore what each other wants and if it seems right we make it happen. We’ve talked occasionally about what it might be like to involve someone else but it hasn’t come to anything. Until recently.