The sauna cliché and our workaround

True Story

My wife and I have two young kids, which currently keep us from having more than a night away.

For the first weekend in a long time I planned a retreat weekend with my wife **alone**. We left the kids with family and drove two hours away to a spa hotel with everything included so nothing but relax.

Soon after arriving in the early friday afternoon, checking in and unpacking, we went straight to the dining room where cake and tea/coffee was served.

There was a big sigh coming out of both of us as it was just quiet. We talked all night long and decided to relax and catch up on sleep.

This might have bored you, but was necessary to understand our situation.

The next day was planned with spa sessions. After a good night sleep, lots of cuddling and breakfast we went for a short walk and decided to visit the spa in the early morning.

My wife put on the black bikini that I loved so much. She chose that one on purpose. I knew that there wouldn’t be any hot and intense lovemaking as we wanted to try the slow sex approach, but just maybe…