Author: SilkAndFlame

Kinky Advent 5/24 [F] [Bi] [bdsm]

So, today’s assignment was all about porn! I am to send one porn vid a day to my Dom as inspo for our next dates and sessions.
As a person who watches porn quite regularly (although Not that much in the last weeks – thx to more live action ?) I have a few scenes on my mind already. For today I chose a video that shows rather passionate than kinky sex as a start- but of course I couldn’t go strictly vanilla, so there’s some light choking in there as well ?

Let’s see if I can do proper research in the next days and go with a variety of inspiring vids. So for this task it’s a 5/10 in intensity, as it sure will take some time to find videos that are to my Dom’s liking.

xx

See my previous post for an explanation of the title and stay tuned for the next day’s :) I’ll try to post some pictures somewhere around here so check out my profile if interested!

Kinky Advent 4/24 [F] [Bi] [bdsm]

Not having done wax play in what feels like ages I was excited to see the candle I got for Dec 4th. The instructions were to drop the hot melted wax on my body and leave the wax on my skin until evening. Especially the thought of leaving the wax on, and wearing it like a secret sign of kinky achievement under my clothes for the day, got me wet instantly.
A Beeswax candle burns hotter than a normal candle would so I was a tiny bit taut but also very eager to try when lighting the candle. Kneeling on the bathroom floor I started to dribble the wax on my thighs, moving to the inner thighs maybe a bit to early – so yes, beeswax is HOT! On the inner thighs it almost felt like a good strike with a cane. Moving up my body I slowly got used to the stinging feeling the drops cause when they touch the skin, so I really took my time with covering my boob’s and nipples. Having so much fun I even got myself another candle when the first one burnt down. Read more »

Kinky advent 3/24 [F] [Bi] [bdsm]

Today’s envelope contained a picture of the sub/slave position ‘Humble’ and the instruction to practice and remember the name of the position.
‘Humble’ is a kneeling position, with legs parted to the width of the shoulders, where your upper body is bend down to the floor so the forehead is touching the ground. Arms are stretched out to the front crossing at the wrists.
While practising the position I was thinking about how fitting the position was for today’s mood. The last two days I wasn’t able to fulfill the given tasks to my Dom’s satisfaction, missing deadlines and not following all of the instructions. Positioned like that I felt I could give him a non-verbal apology.

Rating the intensity of this task I’m going with a 6/10 today. Not because the task itself is hard to carry out but because of the circumstances and the weirdly fitting timing of it. A truly humbling position it is, especially for a bratty sub like me. Not being able/allowed to look at my Dom works even better on me than any physical punishment could. Imagining having to assume this positions in future sessions is making me want to work harder on being a good and more obedient sub. Read more »

Kinky advent [Bi] [F] [bdsm]

With this post I’m starting a 24-day-journey of a kinky/sexy Advent, a pre-christmas adventure I’m supposed to share on here.

When you get a diy-advent calendar from your boyfriend the first thing you think is:’awwww, that’s so cute’!
When you get one from your bf who is also a kinkster -and a dom at that- you think:’ Fuck, I’m in trouble ?’
Yesterday I didn’t even had to open the first envelope to know, that I would have quite a number of tasks to fulfill in the coming days leading to Christmas. Turns out I really was right.

Task 1 was to walk around the spa and pool area at our hotel with a slightly ‘slipped’ bikini for 30 min. I decided to go for a casual nip slip, which got me a couple of stares by other hotel guests. While walking through the pool area like this wasn’t a big deal, walking by the restaurant and bar was feeling like a small challenge. My nipples barely visible I was still feeling exposed.
Asked to rate the intensity of the task each day, I’d give day one a 4/10. Read more »