3 Things Your Man Wants From Sex. Spoiler: It’s All About You!

So, our sex life is crazy. By crazy, I don’t mean we have threesomes and orgies every night of the week, or even every week, what I do mean is that we will have sex twice a day for five straight days and then nothing for a week, and then fuck like rabbits for a few days, and then, well, you get the picture. It’s called life. I am not complaining. I fucking love our sex life. I’ve been with between two and three dozen guys and my husband is the absolute best in all the ways — something that I have found quite rare in the married world.

Enough rambling. That’s a picture of our sex life, it’s great! And our sexual communication is even better, which is what led me to writing this article. I asked him some questions about sex, to find out what HE really wants, and what most (unselfish) guys want from a girl when doing the deed between the sheets; or on the sheets, or on the countertop, or wherever. I’ll proceed with a Q&A format, an interview if you will.

1) He Wants to Watch you Orgasm

How to Give a Mind-Blowing Blowjob! One he Will Never Forget!

90% of a good blowjob happens before it’s in your mouth. The rest is just background noise.

I posted this on r/sex and r/sexology but they suck and do not allow links. r/erotica does, so their loss is your gain!

“A penis cannot tell the difference between the back of your throat or the roof of your mouth.” I read that someplace. Unless the guy is standing over you, and you are leaning back with your head off the bed (or table) and he is fucking your mouth, then he has no idea if the tip of his penis is touching the back of your throat or the top of your mouth. And the only way he reason he can tell in this position is because he can look down and see it. Which is fucking hot, by the way, if you’re into that. Lesson: deepthroating is overhyped and guys really don’t care. Sure it feels good, but it’s not a necessity. Although, if you can do it, they love to watch!

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Stockings Will Do That: Sex Before Dinner (and during, and after!)

We bought tickets to the ballet. Romeo and Juliet. How romantic! A nice dinner, a show of two lovers that…well, you know the story. I won’t rehash Shakespeare’s work here. The night of the performance I dolled myself up quite nice. My makeup was working better than usual, my eyes popped, and my hair was perfect (that’s a first!). I had the sexiest dress for the occasion, complete with stockings and heels. Stockings drive my husband nuts. I didn’t want Juliet being the star of the entire evening. I walked into the waft of his favorite perfume, and of course my nether regions were fresh, trim, and ready for sex! Silk pink panties were hidden by my sexy black dress. After all, a little color never hurts.

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Real Sex Diary: Becoming a HotWife

This is my first entry peeking into my actual sex life. Lots of the things that are on this blog are stories, fantasies, some based on actual events, some just in my mind, or someone else’s mind, but now I’m going to focus on making a diary of my sex life. I may change my mind and not post this for free, but for now, you’re getting a real look into my sex life! Enjoy it, you naughty voyeurs! This was out first step out of monogamy, and has been a fucking blast!

After talking about it, and weighing the pros and cons, we, my husband and I, have decided to dip into unchartered waters, for us anyway. What does this mean? It means I’m going to be a hotwife! And I am super excited. For those of you that don’t know, that means I can have sex with others and my husband is okay with it, as long as I tell him, of course. So, two nights ago we fired up my old Tinder account and began the search. Just as before, it wasn’t hard to find my inbox flooded with replies. After chatting with a few, we landed on one that’s a keeper. I won’t use his real name, but I’ll call him Jake. Jake is hot. That was one of the requirements that my husband asked for. “If you’re gonna fool around, at least make sure the guy is hot.” Well, this one is! I’ll save his details for later, when I actually meet him.

Punish Me. Harder!

Sometimes, I just want to be punished. I disobey on purpose so my husband will lay me on the bed and spank my ass until I’m red. Or maybe he will stretch my tiny little holes with toys that are way too big and intimidate me. I wrote all about the last time he punished [me here](https://medium.com/sexual-compass/punished-685144197f21). And holy fuck I loved being his little submissive slut.

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First Trip to a Sex Club Ended with a Full Swap Foursome!

A few more sessions of watching that video while we fucked, made us both want a little more. (What video? [Click here](https://medium.com/sexual-compass/watching-my-wife-with-someone-else-96e86c685892) for the back story details). The way the stranger used her, just for sex, was fucking hot, and amazing to watch. She agreed. I wanted to watch her in person with someone else. I wanted to share my wife, let her be the little slut that she is, in my presence. She was hesitant at first, but as we watched the videos a few more times and had amazingly hot sex during it each and every time, she said she wanted to do it. Great, now what?

We decided that the best way would be to visit a sex club. We did a little research and decided to just do it. She dressed herself up in a very short red dress, a nice color for a a good little slut. Her breasts weren’t popping out but you could tell that she came to play. I donned slacks and a button up, business attire for our night out. We walked in and were greeted by a hostess wearing not much at all. She was definitely nice to look at. The anticipation on the drive there had more than turned me on, and now looking at this 20 something in a flirty little black number with fishnet stocking, and I was more than ready to play.

Sex With Others – Cheating with Her Best Friend, Spoiler: He isn’t the only one!

Zachary Williams wasted no time in texting his best friend the moment his wife walked out the door. Brittany, his wife of seven years, had a software conference in Miami for the week. While she never traveled for work, her company sent a representative each year to a conference that was designed to update the companies on changes to their software systems. In reality, it was just a big party that VioTech threw each year to appreciate the thousands of dollars that their clients, Brittany’s company included, overspent for services each year. She was more than happy to get to the beaches of South Florida and out of the cold, extended winter of Minneapolis. Although it was the middle of May, the temperatures in Minnesota were still hovering just above freezing at night and still cool enough for a heavy jacket during the day. She ached to let the sun kiss her skin while sipping a cocktail with her toes in the sand. Brittany was more than happy the day her boss told her that she was the one going to Miami, and she certainly didn’t object.

Jessica, replied almost immediately to her friend’s text: What’s wrong?

Fucking My Wife While Watching her Fuck Someone Else on Video! Spoiler: HOT!!

When I’m alone, I watch that video, a lot. The one my wife made a few weeks ago, of herself, fucking another man. It wasn’t until last night that we finally watched it together. We didn’t plan to, or rather, she didn’t. I had it ready to go. I wanted it on, in the background, while we were going at it. All I had to do was turn on the bedroom television, and it would play. That took some doing, but this isn’t a how-to electronics story. This is a story of me doing naughty, naughty things to my wife.

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My First Date as a Hotwife: And Oh was It Hot!!

This is my first entry peeking into my actual sex life. Lots of the things that are on this blog are stories, fantasies, some based on actual events, some just in my mind, or someone else’s mind, but now I’m going to focus on making a diary of my sex life. I hope you enjoy!

After talking about it, and weighing the pros and cons, we, my husband and I, have decided to dip into unchartered waters, for us anyway. What does this mean? It means I’m going to be a hotwife! And I am super excited. For those of you that don’t know, that means I can have sex with others and my husband is okay with it, as long as I tell him, of course. So, two nights ago we fired up my old Tinder account and began the search. Just as before, it wasn’t hard to find my inbox flooded with replies. After chatting with a few, we landed on one that’s a keeper. I won’t use his real name, but I’ll call him Jake. Jake is hot. That was one of the requirements that my husband asked for. “If you’re gonna fool around, at least make sure the guy is hot.” Well, this one is! I’ll save his details for later, when I actually meet him.

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Fucking My Best Friend and Her Dad on the Same Day!

Some of you have read this, but I am finally finished with the series, unless you all want it to continue, then just message me and I’ll let YOU choose what happens next. This is part 1 of 5, and will take you to all 5 parts. A lot of this is true and actually happened, yeah, I know, I was a bit of a slut when I was teen, and maybe I still am! Enjoy!

My family moved from California to Texas four years ago, during the summer before my freshman year. Entering high school was going to be hard enough, but to do it in a completely different town, a completely different state, I wasn’t so sure. Amanda made it easy. I met Amanda the day after we moved in. July, in Texas, is hot; the sun lives here, I swear. The doorbell rang, I opened the door, and there she was. Amanda. Wearing shorter shorts than we wear in Cali, a skimpy little tank top that halfway covered her bikini top. She was 14, same age as me. That afternoon she would become my first friend in my new home.