I guess, like most bros, my story starts in my youth. Regular stuff you know. In middle school and jr. High (5-8 grades). I would go to my friends house where he had found his dad’s old porn mag stash. We would sit in his room or go out to the barn at the back of the pasture and look at all the topless chicks. Sometimes we would JO, sometimes mutual JO, and there were even a few BJs in there.
Looking back it is quite hilarious because, especially in the early years, because we didn’t actually know what we were doing so we would just do stuff till we got tired. It wasn’t until 7-8 grade that we realised that there was a completion state. After 8th grade me and my friend kind of drifted. We went to high school and kinda found our own groups.
I never really struggled with my sexuality, from a pretty early age despite my homophobic family I was pretty aware that people are people. I have always assumed everyone is bisexual/pansexual and if you see someone you like, start a conversation. People will catch that you are trying to flirt and if you are the wrong gender for them they will most likely let you know. I don’t understand why that is such a difficult concept to understand. Anyway, I digress.