Jared and I were always a mixed bag when it came to our relationship. When we were on, we were really on, but when we were off all I ever got from him was the silent treatment. It was probably the most intense relationships both sexually and emotionally that I have ever had. After years of our relationship being like this and a year or more of no contact, we finally decided that it was best if we just be friends. It was definitely a hard hit but I knew it was a step that needed to be taken. We spent the next year growing into our friendship and supporting each other through the major steps in our life. He was one of the first people I told when my husband proposed to me and he had promised even a year out that he would be making it to the wedding. Over the next year he ended up meeting someone as well and it finally seemed that we were finally on a good track. The wedding rolls around and I see him in the audience with his girlfriend and I’m just happy him and so many of my friends made it out to the wedding. I couldn’t wait to see him at the reception and get to know his girlfriend. And that was the last time I saw him. The reception rolled around and they were nowhere to be found. I tried to reach out to him after to see what had happened but it was radio silence.