This is the true account of her first time and hopefully a resource for others.
Tip #1: Be completely secure in your relationship and 100% open and honest before introducing another into your sex life. This scenario is not a fix for issues or problems.
My 2 cents on how we eased into it – like a freight train.
We have been committed to each other and had a great relationship for years, and despite being a bit repressed about sex & masturbation, had a truly great sex life.
We worked on incorporating different elements into our playtime, such as different locations, outdoor sex, and had also finally introduced toys. Due to her previous lover’s selfish tendencies she had previously believed orgasms were a myth – like Sasquatch or UFOs.
She soon discovered that to be untrue, and that she was multi-orgasmic. Thanks to before-mentioned (unfaithful) boyfriend she had moderate self esteem issues, even though she always turns heads when she enters a room, had a great body and a 10/10 ass.
We pillow-talked about her being the object of other men’s desires as I tried to encourage her and help tear down her esteem barriers.