[MF] I was having trouble verbalizing what I wanted in bed with my husband, so I wrote an erotic “manual” on foreplay…

Move with intention. Dont be shy, but don’t be too aggressive (unless the mood fits it).

Kiss me lightly, use your lips as softly as you can at first. No need to mash your lips into mine, I feel them more when its light. Kiss both my lips, upper, and then lower.  Move from my lips to my neck, still softly, maybe sometimes just running your lips over my skin. You can lightly nibble me if you’d like. The surprise of the contrast between a light touch and a small bite can be surprisingly hot. 

Use only your fingertips. Barely touch me at first and never use the palm of your hand–run your fingertips from my neck down my body, just a light touch–sneak up my shirt and peel it off. Tease my waistband. Run your fingers down my breasts, sides, stomach, butt, legs, inner thighs. Whether you are on top of me or coming at me from the side, build up an anticipation while you kiss me. No urgency–we usually have no where to be.